covered or uncovered whats the big deal?

. There are many men who do not want the risk of bbbj. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

and those are probably married men cheating on their wives......

and those are probably married men cheating on their wives......

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

LOL.. do you know that almost 90% of the men who visit the ladies are married? hahhaha

LOL.. do you know that almost 90% of the men who visit the ladies are married? hahhaha Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

I would agree with that number,..

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Well truth told catching STD's is more common than you think. The sad truth is women are usually the ones who pay more often than not with their lives from the cancer and infertility issues associated with STD's.

Quote: "Unfortunately, STDs are another area of life in which women can’t seem to catch a break. Tracey Powell is the founder and CEO of getSTDtested.com, an online company that allows customers to order and undergo STD testing in a manner that uniquely protects their privacy. According to Powell, most medical experts would generally agree that women are more susceptible to STDs than men are. Why is this the case? Women are just anatomically wired to be more likely to contract STDs. The average vaginal environment is such that it enables viruses and bacteria to grow, thereby increasing a woman’s chances of infection. Since the vagina is lined with a thin mucous membrane, it is relatively easy for a disease to penetrate that particular barrier. On the other hand, the penis is protected by its epidermis skin coating with a small membrane opening, making it more difficult for infection to successfully enter. As a result, it is far easier for a woman to become infected during normal intercourse (receptive anal intercourse by women or men increases the risk of infection either way)."

It is selfish and naive for a man to risk not only his health, but the womans as well. Shocking are the pictures but they are there to hopefully make people aware the risks are not worth it.

I myself have thought long and hard about using a condom during a bj with any of my gentleman friends. As far as saying a lady will lose biz over it is nonsense. Only if she is totally dependent on a board such as this would she lose some business, but honestly I have had a number of gentleman lurkers who have come to see me, and still do who do not have a problem with CBJ. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Ask Guilty Pleasures the time of day and she'll build you a watch...

It's really simple .... providers who do not want to offer bbbj... shouldn't ... hobbyist who want bbbj should go see providers who offer bbbj ... this ain't rocket science ...

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I just got through studying for a board exam. I've gone over pictures like that over and over. But how often have I seen them in real life. And I work at an ER that has a pretty underprivileged clienele. Almost never. Sure you see the occasional guys with GC. A few women with PID. But the Chancroid, syphilis, LGV etc. Very rarely. I"m not saying it's not out there. I just got through studying about it over and over, but in real life you just don't see a lot of it. And stuff you get from a BBBJ? Even rarer. I don't think I've seen one case in over 25 years in an ER.

I like uncovered DATY more than 1 with someone licking the thong lool so I would understand if a man prefer bbbj.

At least if it is a CBJ, properly discard the cover:

http://hiphopwired.com/2010/08/25/4-...-herpes-video/

Ask Guilty Pleasures the time of day and she'll build you a watch...

It's really simple .... providers who do not want to offer bbbj... shouldn't ... hobbyist who want bbbj should go see providers who offer bbbj ... this ain't rocket science ... Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

But CBJ advocates want to "save" the rest of us, hence the reason for their alarmist language and shock-value pictures. Statistics, real-world experiences, medical expertise and the like mean nothing to them. For these chicken littles of the hobbying community the sky is always falling as long as that dirty, dirty penis is outside of a latex sheath.

It would be great if everyone could take your advice, TMFT. Unfortunately, we all see ourselves as an expert with a brand-spanking-new opinion and information that has never been seen on this board. So, we will continue to see threads like this pop up every couple of weeks or so.

Jackie S. hopefully your news will be good today.

Don T. "the significant morbidity of prostate biopsy" please explain?

Jackie S. hopefully your news will be good today.

Don T. "the significant morbidity of prostate biopsy" please explain? Originally Posted by boardman

Gram-negative septicemia is a possible fatal complication of prostate biopsy, as well as significant local infection in the prostate. Hemorrhage. Post-procedure prostate swelling can cause urinary obstruction. Erectile dysfunction can develop or worsen following prostate biopsy. In rare cases tumor cells can be translocated out of the capsule by the biopsy needle.

These risks are reduced by TRUS (trans-rectal ultrasonically guided) biopsy: http://www.urologychannel.com/diagno...sts/trus.shtml

I would just as soon skip the experience of dying from metastatic prostate cancer.....but it is important to remember that aggressive diagnostic and treatment modalities are far from risk-free. In my long life I've known a few men who died from prostate cancer, but I've seen many more previously hale and hearty healthy old men transformed into incontinent, broke-down prostate cripples by possibly over-aggressive or unnecessary intervention. This is understandable, given the unpredictability of the damn cancer. Many of the bastards just sit there at the base of the bladder for decades without ever causing any problem, like some venomous snake you unknowingly step over on your way to the outhouse, unless something brings it to your attention and provokes your stampede into the shit.

BACK ON TOPIC: Condom devotees seem to believe they abolish risk...I wonder how many debutantes have choked to death on them...I wonder whether the relative risk of oral transmission of significant STD is appreciably less than the risk of strangling on the rubber, I wonder WTF was going on with this dude's condom-wearing: http://www.thaivisa.com/forum/topic/...eath-by-snake/

Beats me.

As far as I'm concerned, the risk of oral transmission of STD is far too small to justify wearing a wrapper...and the biggest reason to wrap up for FS is to prevent unwanted pregnancy. This discussion is, of course, confined to normal heterosexual practice and does not signify with pervert faggot (including trannies) activities.

I am sitting in the Doctors waiting room right now, with my Lap Top. My appointment was at 11:00, but judging from my position on the sign in sheet, I should have brought a lunch. The office has a pretty strong WiFi signal.

Anyway, thanks for the good will. I have known this Doctor for a long time, I trust him. But I am not going to lie, I am just a tad scared.

What I need to do when I get the heck out of here is lay down with a nice understanding woman who can at least lie well enough to convince me every thing will be OK.

I hope she answers her phone.

I just got through studying for a board exam. I've gone over pictures like that over and over. But how often have I seen them in real life. And I work at an ER that has a pretty underprivileged clienele. Almost never. Sure you see the occasional guys with GC. A few women with PID. But the Chancroid, syphilis, LGV etc. Very rarely. I"m not saying it's not out there. I just got through studying about it over and over, but in real life you just don't see a lot of it. And stuff you get from a BBBJ? Even rarer. I don't think I've seen one case in over 25 years in an ER. Originally Posted by sharkman29

I know your a doc hun, but I see a gynecologist who knows that I escort. Been seeing her for years, and she actually sees other woman in the hobby too. Great lady. She has seen this stuff, and she says it is very common for risky behavior especially in our hobby. Her stories and accounts always scare the hell out of me. I can't tell you how many men in the past I have turned away that had what looked like in those pictures I posted.. one guy said to me, he had always had those bumps and never thought it was a problem till I told him it was..now that is scary!!

Nevertheless.. some people are gonna risk their health.

TFMT you are so funny. Yea, I guess I get way too technical and all too serious.. I guess I do need to lighten up.

But damn this neck brace is killing me, and I am feeling a bit crabby these days..lol

I am sitting in the Doctors waiting room right now, with my Lap Top. My appointment was at 11:00, but judging from my position on the sign in sheet, I should have brought a lunch. The office has a pretty strong WiFi signal.

Anyway, thanks for the good will. I have known this Doctor for a long time, I trust him. But I am not going to lie, I am just a tad scared.

What I need to do when I get the heck out of here is lay down with a nice understanding woman who can at least lie well enough to convince me every thing will be OK.

I hope she answers her phone. Originally Posted by Jackie S

Awwww, hun if I could I would. Bless your heart. I would give you a big hug! I have just been through some rough stuff myself lately, you keep your chin up, and know that I am wishing the best for you just as everyone else is.