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.........You might want to take your case to a completely neutral party, like a psychiatrist, and give him/her a chance to listen and comment. ......... Originally Posted by starflash

I was thinking ... brain surgeon.


Nick:
"I would still feel an obligation to support her so she would never go back into the "business" again. She knows that."


Folks, I have a theory:

EA:
"Why exactly did you start this thread?? Are you trying to convince us??"

No, HER!

By this thread he is actually trying to convince her that if she marries him, he really will support her for the rest of her life!

Nali will you marry me?? Nali? Nali? Nali?

I guess thats a no!

What would I have done with my black book if she said yes? In movies I have seen the ceremonial BURNING of the black book. Why would the guy not give it to a buddy? He could use it, or better yet, give it back later on when things go South

My little black book is thicker tan Charlie Sheen’s Pre-Nup!

BTW: You want answers? I think I'm entitled! You want answers? I want the truth! You can't handle the truth!

Grab the bull by the horns ... and I'm not a UT fan!

What would I have done with my black book if she said yes? In movies I have seen the ceremonial BURNING of the black book. Why would the guy not give it to a buddy? He could use it, or better yet, give it back later on when things go South
Originally Posted by Still Looking

Ha! Get a "throw down" black book and burn it. Put the original in a safe deposit box.

My lady was in the profession because she earned a good living. She looked at things solely in that manner. Her clients were mostly visiting businessmen. Outside of "work" she lived a very middle class life.

Now she gets attention from men because she is good looking. However, she is completely faithful and has been a great companion in all respects. Originally Posted by Nick11796

How do you know and does she think the same of you?

I see no reason why this marriage wouldn't work out just fine. If she's been out of the busines for 2 years and you're willing and able to provide her the financial support that she doesn't need to work anymore.

I've known quite a few ladies who used to escort or dance and are now happily married. They've left the past behind and have moved on with their lives, quite successfully. Just because a lady at one time worked in this business doesn't mean she's not capable of having a normal committed marriage.

True. I don't get why he is still on here.... If she has been out for 2 years and moved on then it almost appears as if he hasn't. Even going so far as to announce his doubts by starting this thread.

EA, I agree with you. The whole thing makes no sense at this point. What is the real issue? and what is her side of the story?

.... then it almost appears as if he hasn't. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

"almost"? He was going "both ways" in December!