even when they want to, it won't happen easily, if it does happen
True, and people don't change unless they want to. Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise
Sometimes we run specials for less depending on how slow business is or just for kicks. Originally Posted by Allie_KatThere is so much win here!
This is a "service-based" business, similar to you going to an attorney for legal assistance or to your accountant for completion of taxes. When you go to A) John Q. Lawyer or B) Henry CPA, you don't tell them, well yeah, I know you quoted me $350/hr for your services, but since you A) didn't get me out of that aggravated assault charge, or B) you weren't able to get me that $20,000 refund even though my taxable income was only $24,000, I'm only going to pay you $100 this time. Originally Posted by Wizard of AhhhhsLMAO!
Another issue to consider is the nature of the 'business'. Most often, the more memorable experiences occur when provider and client 'click'. Originally Posted by The Sixth BeatleWhich suggests that it's not about the money...
There's little doubt in my mind that the BCD activity will likely suffer if preceded by financial negotiation whereas one party (provider) may feel slighted by the other party (client) haggling over the price for the serviceWhich suggests that it really is about the money.
Which suggests that it's not about the money...Why can't it be both? If all I cared about was money I'd put my college degree to use. If all I cared about was sex, I would go back to AdultFriendFinder.
Which suggests that it really is about the money.
Can't have it both ways...
"Oh, that's not what I meant!. I mean that if you pay enough...well...nevermind..."
Best,
Noah Originally Posted by NoahScape
Why can't it be both? If all I cared about was money I'd put my college degree to use. If all I cared about was sex, I would go back to AdultFriendFinder.art history degree is a hard to find a job for
Some of us are in fact blessed to have it both ways. The money is great and the sex is even better. Everyone should be so lucky. That still doesn't mean I will negotiate, or waste time talking to anyone who suggests it. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh
this is america, capitalism, free market, money talks..., there,now we all know where we are at.Interesting....
rude? how? she sets a price based on what she thinks, you offer what you think she is worth
she's rude and disrespectful to not negoate and if you dont try cause you are afraid of hurting her "feelings" or something, why dont you just give me some money and leave, it would be " rude and disrespectful!" to make her earn her money.
have I missed the poster who tried to negotiate and the lady hung up on him, tell him she doesnt do that? Originally Posted by blade78
Copied and pasted the About Me section from my public profile to this thread because it was faster than retyping something that I had already typed.
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Ok but it was confusing and I didn't put the two together..
Soooo when are you "comming out" and what are you willing to pay for your first date??
Unlike others, I am willing to negotiate my rate....hint hint.... Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise
Ok but it was confusing and I didn't put the two together.. Originally Posted by malwoodyI try to be as confusing as possible.
Unlike others, I am willing to negotiate my rate....hint hint.... Originally Posted by malwoodyI am glad you are open to negotiating, I was uncertain if we had reached that level of comfort.
Soooo when are you "comming out" and what are you willing to pay for your first date?? Originally Posted by malwoodyI had a dream where I gave the payment you desired and I asked for nothing in return. At the conclusion of our date, your requested form of payment was a beating. I had never heard of such a thing...... a beating, all he wants is a beating? I broke out my whip and I wasn't going to use it, but per your request, I obliged.
