In reality, your high rollers will negotiate just as everyone else does. Why do you not hear ladies complaining? Because at that level, it is akin to career suicide. Don't assume based on my rates on this board that I have no clue on how things work beyond this board. The only real difference I've noticed is that on the low end, people are more likely to negotiate with dollars and at the higher end, more gents will try to negotiate with time.
I haven't had to deal with much haggling at ANY rate that I've charged. At the worst, this is how the typical conversation goes:
Potential Client: Hi Grace! I was wondering if you offer a half hour rate? I don't generally do full hour appointments. Thanks!
Me: Hi there!! Thanks so much for your interest. Unfortunately, I do not offer half hour appointments at this time. If your schedule frees up to allow longer visits, please feel free to contact me again. Have a wonderful day!!
See-- not difficult at all. Likewise, on the exceedingly rare occasion that someone asks if I offer BBFS, I can also politely decline. I see no need to alert the media. The ones who pose a risk are the ones who try to get it during a session rather than asking if it is an option.
Your posts make you seem quite angry and perhaps even bitter. I find that if I concern myself with my own rates and policies and don't fret with what other ladies charge, offer, and negotiate-- that I am generally a happier, more stable person.