If ya don't have trust, can you really have love? We all take a chance when we give our heart to another. You may get hosed or it may turn out to be your "happily ever after". We don't get guarantees or a warranty with relationships no matter what walk of life we come from or meet in, whether it be friendships or lovers.
Let me ask you guys this....how do you know the "ladies in question" are not gonna think that you are just a smooth operator looking to get some free "time"? Keep in mind that the ladies might also have reservations about your motives. I'm just sayin'.
Best of luck to all those who find themselves, smitten, infatuated, or just downright in love.
Originally Posted by M A X
Well said, Max. In my case, I've been in "infatuated" with two ladies in the hobby and been in "GF/BF" relationship for a period of time. With the first lady, the relationship lasted more than two years. The second one was a lot shorter...about 8 months. In both cases, we uttered the L-word with each other, and we meant it. But I believe, at least from my perspective, we knew that we wont be in a "forever" relationship. In my mind, I considered the relationship as more like sugardaddy/sugarbaby type of situation since I helped them financially and they accepted it as a part of being in an exclusive relationship (as far as I know).
However, in my current situation, she and I clicked right away from the moment we met BCD. Immediately after our initial session, she said that she wants to pursue a more of BF/GF relationship and that she doesn't want to take my money. To this date, she hasn't asked for any financial support from me nor have I offered it. Recently, we both uttered the L-word and discussed how we can get into a "forever" situation. But the sticking part is that she is one of the popular providers on this board, and she's still taking appointments. She constantly reminds me that she is doing this to pay her bills, but I do get jealous (she also told me to stop reading her reviews because most of what men write are much exaggerated). I try to accept the fact that this is how I met her, and I know that she's going to do this until she reaches the point where she no longer wants to be a provider on her own will. But, as I have my moments of jealousy and insecurities, I am doing the best I can to make this relationship work for both of us.