Questions for the guys: why do you hobby?

Divorced, dated a while and came close to making a huge mistake. Backed off and realized I wasn't ready to date. Found this site and have been having fun ever since. Right now cheaper than dating.
I do have a problem looking at women now without wondering how much it would cost.

I do have a problem looking at women now without wondering how much it would cost. Originally Posted by Cactushopper49

LOL, I love it! I look at guys all the time out in public wondering if they hobby. And sometimes women, too.

Duh- forgot the obvious answer. Why do I hobby? Because I can. Originally Posted by mrhappysf

Exactly!

Exactly! Originally Posted by LOJ

Boring!

Because if pussy grew on trees, we'd all have splinters in our dicks

I travel a LOT for work. I hate the bar scene and am often not in a city long enough for "traditional" meeting strategies.

Besides, there are a lot of ladies in this business who are nicer, more interesting, and more talented than the ladies I would meet when I was actively looking for a date while on the road. And a whole lot nicer than those that friends would try to set me up with. Originally Posted by Old-T

So.... We could summarize that you get what you pay for..... Originally Posted by Whispers

Fair question, but "pay for" is not as simple as how much money I take out of my wallet.

"Paying" is a combination of time spent looking, and dollars. What I think I am doing is investing some money to speed up the process. When I am somewhere for an extended period I have not had problems meeting interesting ladies. But if I am on a 5 city in 7 days trip, I do not have the time to find the right person, so in those cases this profession of the ladies' is a very convenient and productive tool.

Fair question, but "pay for" is not as simple as how much money I take out of my wallet.
Originally Posted by Old-T

Never try to teach Whispers to sing - it wastes your time and annoys the PIG.
On topic: great and different experiences.

For me, I have chronic back issues which limits me from actually having sex. I find it easier and the women of ECCIE more understanding when seeking just a blowjob, or two.

Happily married, but when my wife hit "the change," her libido took a vacation. Never heard from since.

Why are we posting on a 3 month old thread by saustin??

eerrrrr I mean claresheblows

In a long relationship... but something about diffrent races and connections it's fun, no drama.. plus we all have fantasies right??? Also I am just horny as fuck to be honest 😂 I stare at every ass I think looks good! When I started the hobby I was 18 so older mom types fucked me up and i wanted it... lol plus a strange touch just gives you that adrenaline.... i feel bad sometimes cause my other half is an amazing lady but damn I have urges and needs and we are always busy...

This thread was a good read and interesting pov even the trolls!

Stay safe yall.

I’m the female half of a relationship. Have you thought of approaching your wife/gf to participate in the hobbying? You might be surprised.

I’m the female half of a relationship. Have you thought of approaching your wife/gf to participate in the hobbying? You might be surprised.

Strictly the adventure of it. If it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesnt

Plenty of ladies out there to play with. I just have to wine and dine a bit then we play.

Here its directly to the point.

Both have its advantages and disadvantages.