You're not a BBW...you're just obese...

Just don't miss your appts because your standing in line at the Subway. I think there was another provider who did that a while back. I don't think Subway helped her very much though. Good luck on your endeavor and good health to you.

Ok, ok I wasnt gonna do this, but here goes..I have been a big girl for the last year, but I have a reason and a damned good one..the death of my son..but I feel that I am still sexy and still beautiful, and have not lost one regular customer, I was actually told by one today that Im shrinking...lol...I am working on losing some of my weight but I will never get down to what other people define as my "ideal" weight..Im gonna keep my gorgeous curves..and I think Amy and Nikki are sexy women..and I wouldn't kick either one out of bed..

Im still going to Weight Watchers and have lost 20 pounds in 3 months..and I love it...But to me big girls can be sexy..just ask the countless guys who can't keep thier hands off me..

[quote=bustyamy;2699088]I went to Subway and thought about Wakeup and ordered a turkey sandwich. Then felt so proud and got to the end of the counter and got chips and sweet tea, then saw those delishious cookies they had and ummmmm.....the rest is history lmao.





Halarious.

I never want to be skin and bones... BONES ARE FOR DOGS! I have never been "skinny", and never want to be. It won't hurt me to lose some though. The thing is, this is a job --- but I work for Me, no boss, no one telling me who I have to deal with and who I do not. .. I get to spend my time with great MEN who have gotten past the boy stages of their lives and know what life is truly all about..I am not here to please every person on this board.

What counts is that I am happy in my real life. I have never been an insecure person. No one is perfect, people die from things every day... when it is my time, it is just my time.... But at least I can hold my head up high knowing I am a good, decent, respectful person and that I do not get off on disrespecting other people. I'd rather be over weight in some one elses eyes, than be looked at like I am pissed at the world every day of my life.

Live, Learn, Laugh, and fuck as much as possible!!! Life is too short to worry about those who don't matter.

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Live, Learn, Laugh, and fuck as much as possible!!! Life is too short to worry about those who don't matter. Originally Posted by bustyamy

Now that I like...

I was gonna comment on that same thing Allison...... Ditto lol

Just don't miss your appts because your standing in line at the Subway. I think there was another provider who did that a while back. I don't think Subway helped her very much though. Good luck on your endeavor and good health to you. Originally Posted by ThMac

Funny.

The thing is, if I lose the weight.. great, if not...life still goes on. I too have gained and lost in the past few years.
My phone will still ring just as it does now..And missing appointments is some thing I have never done so that's out of the question. Besides... I took the day off, and I know how to manage my time very well..

But, thanks.

Allison----
Thanks girl., I agree. I was a little pissed at the direct calling of me fat & ugly... not because it is true.. but because I was just appauled at the fact a "man" would speak that way towards a woman.. Then I realized that, very few real men exsist these days and what comes out of their mouth is crazy.... I guess skinny girls put up with shit like that!!! Where I come from, he would have gotten his teeth knocked out by the nearest real man.

Every one is beautiful in their own way. As I stated in a few other post... Im sure if we could see photos of some of the guys who bitch bictch bitch on here we could start a number of threads on how we feel personaly. But, I'm not even that type of person to be that way towards any one.


Good job on losing those pounds.. and good luck!! We all are beautiful women...

None of us have "no" reviews, none of us are ripping people off, none of us are giving shitty service..most of us have reviews that say "we look better in person than the photos" so we are doing some thing right as far as this hobby.... and on this board... that should be all that matters!!!

:t hrob::thr ob::throb :

---Big Girls Ride Harder---or maybe it should say " Big Girls Suck Deeper..!!!

NIKKI, if you are really going to take up WU's challenge....you may want to first compare your usual calorie intake to what he suggests (1200) and consider whether cutting it down suddenly to this level could cause you any adverse health effects. Perhaps even seek professional advise before you go ahead.

Things in nature....don't always like....abrupt changes.

AllisonofHouston[/COLOR];2699171]Ok, ok I wasnt gonna do this, but here goes..I have been a big girl for the last year, but I have a reason and a damned good one..the death of my son..but I feel that I am still sexy and still beautiful, and have not lost one regular customer, I was actually told by one today that Im shrinking...lol...I am working on losing some of my weight but I will never get down to what other people define as my "ideal" weight..Im gonna keep my gorgeous curves..and I think Amy and Nikki are sexy women..and I wouldn't kick either one out of bed..

Im still going to Weight Watchers and have lost 20 pounds in 3 months..and I love it...But to me big girls can be sexy..just ask the countless guys who can't keep thier hands off me.. Originally Posted by [COLOR=red

Allison - Fixed the typo for you.

But to me big girls are sexy.

NIKKI, if you are really going to take up WU's challenge....you may want to first compare your usual calorie intake to what he suggests (1200) and consider whether cutting it down suddenly to this level could cause you any adverse health effects. Perhaps even seek professional advise before you go ahead.

Things in nature....don't always like....abrupt changes. Originally Posted by Sarunga

I ate Subway twice today and did not hit the 1200 mark.. That was all I ate today.. And drank almost 2 gallons of water... It's not what I am eating my dear...

I drink more than too much Soda & Starbucks on top of my meals every day... some times, i will only eat one meal a day if i get too busy. Im pretty sure, I will be just fine.. my calorie intake from food is not the issue.. to be honest, because I am not afraid to do that... hell, I drink more than 800 calories if I don't watch it every day.. that is no joke. So once I cut those out... I will be just fine.

I do have a doctor.. and he would laugh his ass off if I called him to ask such a thing, especially since he has been my dr since I was a teenager and knows I am far from being at a risk for any serious medical issues. I see my dr for the usual check ups.... no issues here. And as I stated, I am active so that has never been some thing I have heard from my doctor.. wonder why? BECAUSE I AM NOT UNHEALTHY. Over the "ideal" weight that is set in stone.. maybe.. but unhealthy... hell no.


Any who.. day 1 of the challenge is over..


This whole thread can be summed up .............................. ............


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Originally Posted by kanadakane12
... where is the common respect of thanks but no thanks....

Kana,

I know most of your post was a rant. That's great, for that's part of the purpose of these forums. Air out your thoughts and feelings and let those will similar interests and values help you sort them out. I'm glad you felt the liberty to do so. From my perspective, and I hope from yours, you're getting some great advice.

It remains one of the great tragedy's of society that the common idiot is allowed to play in the same streets where you travel. Make a comment or two such as yours and they come out of the woodwork to demonstrate that Mum never taught them the language of common decency. You will just have to learn to smile at--and ignore--these poster children for ignorance.

The truth is, there is no "body standard" in the hobby or elsewhere in our culture. We have groups who wish to say there was, even work to propagate that, but in the end no such standard exists. Our individual worth lies outside of our outer shell. As you've heard remarked in previous posts, great attitude, humble spirit, good communication skills, and a focus on your individual strengths should form the basis of your self worth.

It is true that there will be some who prefer a different body style. And we're glad because our own preferences make us unique. But it is equally true that not everyone shares those preferences--even in this hobby. The key, again, is to understand those as preferences and not standards upon which to be judged.

Don't judge the ladies herein based on the one vile creature you experienced. Usually, those types have horribly low self images themselves and project that to you in order to lift themselves up. It is sport of the most detestable kind and behavior fit for grammar school children. Common decency forms the backbone of a society and it forms the backbone of these forums.

And don't judge the men who judge you. They operate from a platform of great intellectual deficit. Their ignorance probably is as repulsive to most ladies as they say differing body styles are to them.

As someone suggested earlier--to my applause--men have their own way of screening. Largely, it is silent. I don't discuss my techniques and requirements with anyone. We all have our bucket lists, yes. We also have our DNS lists. Most ladies would be surprised who is--and who isn't--on our lists.

Keep your head up. Get involved around here and have lots of fun. Ignore the cretins and hang out with the freer, happier spirits. You'll do great. We're glad you're here.

All the best,

JDN
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I hate rude behavior in a man. I won't tolerate it.

In the amount of time it took me to read all these comments I believed I missed a meal or two, lol. I read and agree with both sides. Obesity is getting out of control and it is starting to be a big problem with our youth. We have more obese kids now than ever. If you are fat and overweight at 14 years old what do you think there health will be by the time they are in there 30's if they make it that far. I also believe everybody has a right to look how they want. If someone is comfortable in their own skin it is not my place to tell them they are wrong. I am a lover of women of all sizes shapes and colors. I believe you can find beauty in all women whether inside or out.

I'm actually happy to see all these comments at the end here. It simply illustrates how our society has gotten so caught up in politically correct bullshit that we can actually condone being a health risk simply to avoid talking about this topic.

The time for the brainwashing is over. Just like any number of other things in this country that are health risks, unfortunately the government is going to have to step in to regulate what you're too lazy to do yourself. Here's you're warning, you brought it on yourself.

You're NOT healthy. You're NOT attractive. You're NOT acceptable. You're fat, and your laziness will kill you and others around you. Have fun.

WOW
THis morning when I signed on I was sure it was eccie. I think Dr.Phil has taken over. This board is for men and ladies who want to conduct a certain type of business. It is a consumer report and discussion forum for our hobby. To make any post judging any person on this board is the height of hypocricy. WU you hire ladies to have sex with you for money. Some in our soceity might judge you for that, not me I dont care what you do with your time or money, and I dont give a rats ass about what you eat, or how healty you are. Did I wake up and find that someone appointed you the hall moniter for calories. If you dont like the big ladies dont see them. If you like them skinny more power to you bro, not my taste. I have only seen one of the ladies that responded to this thread. Allison is awesome, sexy, sweet, and georgous. She is revered to as a legend on this board for a reason. If she is to heavy for you dont see her you will just miss an awesome experience. I plan to see Amy soon, and I am sure I will enjoy that as much as the countless others who have seen her have. So why dont you sit by yourself for lunch just like you did in high school eat your celery. Me and a bunch of others will be eating burgers and fries, and drinking beer with some sexy big busty ladies. Oh sorry if you need to correct my lifestyle for drinking alchol I guess thats next.

LMFAO!

You tell him, Bob.

I see some one still has not gotten around to giving WU any pussy!!!