Overweight Hobbyists

It sucks being so dam fat, some providers I see request we do it on the floor, cause she doesn't want to take a chance of the bed breaking. Carpet burns suck!

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I sincerely appreciate this compassionate attitude.

However...

Conservation of energy is a physical law that applies even in the presence of medical conditions. For a person to gain weight, calories consumed must exceed calories burned. There's no way around it. Bad genetics cannot turn air into fat; fat has to come from excessive food intake.

I say this not to be mean, but to make the point that suggesting some overweight people don't have control over their situation may do them a disservice. If a person that overeats believes they can't actually control their weight, they're doomed. Originally Posted by CatPee

I have never understood why some people seem to think that "I have a medical condition" is a valid explanation for why they won't accept basic science. Denial?

I also dont care, as long as he is clean, respectful, and enjoys our time together.

The notion that we dont care about weight, only because we are "getting paid for it" is completely ignorant.

We provide the service, of companionship, to a wide and varied group of individuals, with wide and varied interests, and requests. There is a great deal of acceptance in this space that is not generally experienced out in the world at large... that is WHY the demand for companionship exists in the first place. So doesn't it stand to reason, that a person offering companionship to a wide and varied group of persons, would also be accepting of various body types, as well as activity interests?

Everyone has boundaries. I dont think a weight variance crosses many of them.

Two questions:
If provider had a choice between 6' 200 and 6' 300 which to YOU pick?

If an over weight provider asked you to shower him to make sure he was clean in all areas would you do it?

I always assumed most of these clowns on here are old and fat. And just for the record, I'm neither old nor remotely fat, (actually I'm probably in incredible shape for this place, and I'm positive that I'm really tall for here.) so I guess I'm just being an ass on this topic.

Funny thread though. I would love for a chick to admit that fat asses aren't welcome and see how many days she spends staring at her phone to ring. Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

Love people that are in love with themselves. Like that Avatar of Chuck Conners. He was gay by the way. Says a lot.

Two questions:
If provider had a choice between 6' 200 and 6' 300 which to YOU pick?

If an over weight provider asked you to shower him to make sure he was clean in all areas would you do it? Originally Posted by Shagem6967

If they both passed screening, I'd book each of them.

Wash him? Like a sweet & sexy lil geisha? I could more than accommodate if he requested such. I would even prepare tea.

But I certainly hope you are not being a cad and suggesting a negative connection between weight & hygiene where none exist. I do not provide companionship to anyone who won't maintain proper hygiene (or have adequate arrangements for such to be taken care of) regardless of size/stature/status.

I cannot speak for the masses. I personally enjoy a man more when he has a few extra pounds. Extremely obese however can be problematic. Not due to being unattractive but simply due to logistics. When I say extremely obese I am speaking 450 plus pounds.

Beauty and attraction is based on genetics and pheromones. You will notice in society (real not media inclined) you will often see larger men with small or petite women and vise versa. The commonality is likely due to one having a genetic trait over hyperthyroidism while the other a genetic link to hypothyroidism. This is theorized but not proven.

Overly muscular was once extremely attractive to women due to the ability to protect and provide (hunt) this stigma has lasted longer in media than in real life.

I personally find larger men (and yes women) incredibly enticing. Before you lovely (slightly aggressive) naysayers jump in and state I am marketing understand I am publicly stating my preference for larger men. This would likely turn off smaller and more fit men from contacting me for an appointment.

Overall personality trumps everything. Period. If a larger man acted like oh I don't know just tossing out a name randomly here......wake up.... He would likely be perceived as extremely unattractive to a large sum of women (myself included)

In my experience bigger men adapt with a variety of very....pleasant.... skills. Aside from being generally kinder, more thoughtful, and generous in the bedroom they also tend to share similar interests as I do. This is not to say I have not found thinner men to share some wonderful experiences with. I can say without a doubt or hesitation that in the total sum of my 12 years of dating, 9 hears of providing, 10 years of dancing I have met only 3 muscular or "fit/muscular" men that I connected with at all.

The body is simply that. A body. It holds the sum and total of who you are. If you are kind and gentle, if you are intelligent and thoughtful, you hold the keys to the kingdom.



Old-T..... Careful if you keep this up I am going to have to propose marriage. With my commitment issues that can cause us some complications Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

I am as cynical as they come. I believe what you are posting. I have been pretty darn lucky as an obese man to have dated some good looking, skinny women. It certainly wasn't for money, I am cheap.

They preferred larger guys for whatever reason. The sex was actually really good. I think our relationships suffered though because of my low self esteem. There are def women who are totally superficial, but there are some great looking women who are not.

sixx

I always assumed most of these clowns on here are old and fat. And just for the record, I'm neither old nor remotely fat, (actually I'm probably in incredible shape for this place, and I'm positive that I'm really tall for here.) . Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

You are young, fit, tall, etc and you still pay for pussy?

Damn, you must be one ugly, young, fit, and tall, motherfucker!

I would be pissed if I had all your qualities and STILL paid for pussy!!!

sixx

You are young, fit, tall, etc and you still pay for pussy?

Damn, you must be one ugly, young, fit, and tall, motherfucker!

I would be pissed if I had all your qualities and STILL paid for pussy!!!

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Thats hilarious. I was going to comment on his arrogant post..but didnt know quite what to say.

Im tall and curvy...so i prefer a man with meat on his bones. I dont have a good time with smaller guys because im more focused on if im squashing him instead riding him into dehydration

and i have met more tall, thin, fit guys who were arrogant and didnt think their shit stunk, let alone their balls... and EWWW!!!

I'm sure you don't want to mess with a fatty. I doubt anyone does. I'm guessing the fat boys want the most intimacy.

Having said that, for 38, you look damn good and I'm not in to chicks older than me. Hell, for 28, you look damn good. I hate dorking out on the internet with compliments, but I have to in the rare case that it's actually deserved.

You're a nice looking lady. Roll tide!! Or whatever you rednecks say every Saturday in Alabama during the football games.

Edit: Can't claim Philly and Alabama...Two different worlds of retards....Actually Philly people have a lot more brains than Alabama retards...Sorry, just being honest.. A city beats a state in this case. Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

if you ever go to a philly sporting event for example don't dare wear the opposing teams jersey!

True about this pic to an extent well except I've had skinnies bring snacks (as a surprise or asked) but usually they just watched me eat hmmm lol.

@ sixx um excuse me but I've had my share of fit, good looking, tall (military or ex-military in particular) that I've spent time with and they paid all the same so. 2 of my hottest clients could've been singer Maxwell and actor Michael Jai White look-alikes.

There ya go . Originally Posted by ben8888