As I stressed last time, the way Brittney handled it was far better than any other way she could have. If you read her reviews she's very clearly NOT PSE. Then why would she do acts considered PSE if she's not PSE? The problem becomes gents that then go to other providers advertising as GFE and expecting things that are not done by GFE providers.
Which as much as you want to make a big deal out of it, is relatively common, in and out of the escort world.Yes, like fucking without a condom.Which is becoming more common in the hobby. And which has the potential to affect us all.
Reviews exist so guys can decide which provider is best for them and is closest to their fantasy. If you really hate it, mention on your faq page that you don't allow cof, atm, and all the other things you don't like.And the gents that don't go by reviews? The vast majority of hobbyists do NOT rely on reviews when choosing a provider. I have a no review policy, and still get requests from gents that read this and other review sites.
She didn't encourage other women to follow suit. She didn't encourage men to demand it.I never said she did, did I.
Originally Posted by MaddietheCoed
You mentioned about how GFE isn't clearly defined. What is the use of having hobby "terms" if there is no
definition of the term? That doesn't make any sense!
You also mentioned that I didn't show how what one provider does affects me. Well, I'll be more than happy to explain.
I had an appointment with a gent. After giving him a nice wet BBBJ, I suggersted we try something else. He said that no, he wanted me to finish him off with the BBBJ. I
politely explained that I didn't allow CIM, and that I would have to put on a condom for him to finish in my mouth.
He got all huffy and irritated, and lost his erection. And he, no matter what I tried, couldn't get it up again. At the 35 minute mark of a 30 minute session, I apologized and said that I didn't think it was going to work that day. He left in a huff.
Fast forward a couple of months. Someone put out an ISO on me, and this gent posted "Oh don't see her, I had an awful time with her!"
A hobbyist friend PMd him and asked why he said that. He said that when he requested CIM during our session I "yelled" at him that I didn't do that. Which was a bald faced LIE. I have never "yelled" at anyone during a session in 10 years of being a provider!
What really chapped my ass is that here I was, being so very nice and accomodating to this very overweight, unattractive man, willing to do anything GFE he asked and do it with a smile, and he goes and lies about me to make me look bad.
I never claimed to do CIM.No-one can say that I have done CIM because I never haver(and never will).
So even though I say I'm GFE and nothing more, some GFE provider out there decided to allow him to CIM with her and since SHE did, he expected ME to.
So what that other provider let him get away with most certainly DID affect me. His little post made me look quite bad. And I didn't deserve it.
I also want to apologize to any provider that does COF that thought my "cunt" remark was directed at them. It was directed to the providers that are allowing BBFS. They, in my book, ARE a "cunt". H