If you reread my post, it is taking offense to him stating that I am some naive woman falling for a load of crap (i.e., stupid) - I find that insulting and condescending. I didn't take offense to his not buying the BS, I took offense to him thinking it was appropriate to tell me that I am some dimwit who can't see what is happening. And you know what, I stand by my statement that when people imply I'm too stupid to see something, that I don't like that and they won't like the way I react to them.I have no fucking idea if you gave him points, you know that.
So if me saying that I don't like being called naive is calling him out, you can feel that way. But just because I'm an Admin doesn't mean that as a person, I'm not allowed to be offended when someone takes a jab at me. Did I give him points?
The final statement was unrelated to the above (hence why it was a new paragraph). I was simply restating that I asked people to not respond to member's "olive branch speak" with hostility of it will be met with points. I still am saying that. Originally Posted by B Three
What I know is that you now appear to be wearing two hats now and playing both ends. Admin when it's to your advantage, offended member when that's to your advantage. I don't see the fairness and consistency in that either.
You have authority, you used it in that thread to DJ by threatening to sanction anyone who didn't follow your request to let a multiple time loser who runs ladies off left and right redeem himself. Then in this most recent post you complain that you were offended as a member and you've proven that you will use the power of your position to fade the heat for those who are running the other ladies off. You're throwing your weight around where it benefits YOU most.
I've been asking who benefits from other ladies not posting in co-ed, perhaps the answer is presenting itself.