I wanted to post something to you, Honey, but didnt want to sound rude or condescending. Then ZanziPants posted his wonderful post and I let it go.
But since your update, I will go ahead.
I supported your choice, but I felt sorry for you. I felt sorry that you lived a life where you hadn't had the pleasure of interacting with guys like DeD, Zan. And Rambo. It honestly made me feel sad for you. I believed what you said and understand how you felt.
I applaud the guys here for being so kind about it. They really showed their true character. And so did you in responding to them and stepping outside of your comfort zone.
Well done on all fronts.
And, if the 10 inches scares you...feel free to send my way...lol