We know better. Originally Posted by rockerrick
Some do......
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I'm sorry rockerrick but are you implying that I am in denial because I prefer GFE experience, if so, do explain... And shame on you, if not do explain.... Eitherway. Originally Posted by ExoticEzra
You have no idea how many times I've heard , let's get together for , a concert, a movie, or lets go camping, and never once has been anything other than a means of securing another appointment. So that is why I laugh every time I hear a provider say that ! We know better.
SHAME ON ME ? REALLY ? Originally Posted by rockerrick
To me it's not necessary. If I really, truly enjoyed being with someone then I'm going to see them again regardless and if anything this type of stuff will change my mind about coming back because it becomes a boundary issue. Originally Posted by homer13I don't find it to be a boundary issue, just disingenuous ! I still see them.
I don't find it to be a boundary issue, just disingenuous ! I still see them. Originally Posted by rockerrick
so CJ and SL saw three new girls so is that going to hurt there biz??
perhaps Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY
It can be disingenuous and not necessary for normal guys like you and I but I guess for other guys it will make them come a running back and back. I'm a pretty upfront and honest guy and I will tell them I don't need them to make offers like that or say stuff. If I enjoy them I will continue to enjoy them and keep it for what it is. Originally Posted by homer13Ditto ! I may enjoy a fantasy, but I don't live in fantasyland.
the clock runs out and we are shone the door and not thought of again until we make another appointment. No matter how much chemistry(real or not) and we are very aware of this fact! Originally Posted by rockerrickIf you haven't made it abundantly clear that it is ok for the lady to contact you, she's doing the absolutely right thing by not contacting you after the session... regardless of any chemistry.
So would here's my # call or text anytime be abundantly clear ? Originally Posted by rockerrick
I would think for a new girl that they just struck gold. Getting the CJ and SL seal of approval can only help new ladies out. I thought the t-shirts for SL and the ass paint was hilarious. I just want to know why I wasn't invited to the after party. Originally Posted by homer13
YesVictoria, sorry for painting all with the same brush stroke. I'm sure that would be an exaggeration. But a few have got under my skin , and in an attempt to get my point across to them, I have over simplified ! I just find their attitudes unrealistic for the hobby. I think they're fooling themselves, for whatever reason, and this is ECCIE not Eharmony.I actually found your opinion on the subject to be very grounded.
....Not all of forget about you as soon as you leave.Some of us truly do give the gents we meet a second thought..I was taught from day one to never text or call client unless told it was 100% ok to do so. Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn