For someone that claims to be educated, you should know that a courtesan offers a different type encounter. A lady of the court was allowed where most women weren't. They used song, poetry, and dance more than S.E.X. to entertain their clients. Are you also to claim that a Geisha is the same as any provider? Did you know that most Geisha die virgins and that sex is strictly prohibited? Men pay Geisha thousands of dollars and they know that there will be NO BCD activities. I strive to be more of a courtesan than a provider. Not because it helps me sleep better at night or because it makes me feel superior, but because it is what I'm good at. I don't feel I am any good at sex, I think I suck at giving blow-jobs (no pun intended), and I am a lousy lay. Of course, I know a few men that would argue with my perception, but I feel more equipped and better at listening and understanding the depths of emotions of others. I feel it is my calling to offer a safe place for a man to show his weaknesses. I have a big heart and very strong shoulders to help carry the weight of the world that so many have to carry. That is why I call myself, Courtesan. Sure, I am a provider at times and take those types of appt. too; but there is a difference and I take offense to your comment.
Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva
I do, however, have to vociferously disagree with your statement about how "a provider, is a provider, is a provider". We are all unique individuals and offer a unique experience from each other. Or at the very least I would hope we would. That, to me, is something that truly does signify a so-called "Diamond", regardless of how much she asks for her time. Originally Posted by Claudia MaraVery well said by both ladies.
While I don't label myself as a Courtesan (I try to avoid labels in general and tend to use Provider most often when referring to myself and other ladies) I do feel that the experience I provide is definitely most analogous to that, and I think it's wonderful that Claudia, Nicole and other women are proud to distinguish themselves as such.
I do not think that taking pride in the experience that you offer is snobbery. I do not think anyone here is saying it's "better". Better for who? That is the distinction.
There are different men out there with different wants and needs. The men that tend to see the HDH women out there appear to want not only physical beauty and sensuality, but also intelligence, wit, good conversation, exclusivity, personality and a woman who knows the genuine meaning of discretion and all it carries with it. That is a lot.
I always say if a man is simply looking for mind-blowing sex and not much else to go to someone who advertises as a PSE. That seems to be their speciality. But there are definitely women out there who provide so much more.
This is, of course, all my very humble opinion.
