Question for Our Awesome Guys Out There!! Ever Met An Provider So Extraordinary, Marriage Became an Option??

You don't have any choice who or what you fall in love with. It just happens. Besides, I'm a man-ho, so I don't have much room to be critical.

You don't have any choice who or what you fall in love with. It just happens. Originally Posted by FatBastard

What is this, a Lifetime TV movie? Utter horseshit...

I've always heard about these things happening but I've never been fortunate enough to receive this kind of proposition maybe it's an age thing????? Originally Posted by Breakinghearts101

Possibly....if you are still 18.

On the flip side of the coin: if you were still working while in the marriage, would it bother you for him to still have fun in the hobby?

I've always heard about these things happening but I've never been fortunate enough to receive this kind of proposition maybe it's an age thing????? Originally Posted by Breakinghearts101

You just haven't seen the "cat daddy" yet. I want to marry every provider I see. In a hobby marriage kind of way, of course.

Lol at this question

But what would be the requirements to secure this marriage?? Could you except her continuing as A provider? Originally Posted by dingy_daphne

YES, absolutely. But if we got married, she'd have to quit providing.

Quite frankly, I don't see much difference between marrying an escort and marrying anyone else. When I get married it will be with someone I'm in love with, that I'm compatible with intellectually, emotionally, sexually, and so on. It's just as possible for that to be an escort as anyone else. And frankly, in this day and age, women who have never been escorts are capable of having just as many past sexual partners as an escort.

But, I would not be able to marry an escort if she planned to stay in the business. Monogamy and faithfulness are important to me. I see escorts now because I live in a tiny town with no single women anywhere near my age, and I do have needs that I need to take care of at least once every few months somehow. So, once I do get married, my days of hobbying will be over. (Before anyone takes this as an insult or something, let me be clear that I am in NO WAY judging the married men here that see escorts. It's just not something that I could do.)

First, I would have to question why anyone would want to fuck up a perfectly good sexual relationship by marrying your favorite provider?
I remember shortly after Billy Joel divorced Christy Brinkly, he was asked why did he leave a woman who was at that time considered by many to be the most beautiful woman in the world? Billy Joel said, "Show me the most beautiful woman in the world, and I can assure you that there is a some guy out there that is tired of fucking her."
I couldn't agree more! I have met some really cool providers over the years, I certainly didn't want to fuck things up by marrying them.