My few ATFs have been very spontaneous. It starts at the door. Sometimes it's mad passion right there leading quickly to FS. Other times we head for the breakfast table for convo and coffee. It always ends with a passionate goodbye that says, "Can't you stay longer." I know a lot of it is fantasy, but it always works. I can't wait to replenish my bank account and head back.
Originally Posted by Brandeye
I am so with you on this. The first and even the second visit are sort of introductory visits as we get familiar with one another. If we are both lucky enough for more visits past that it means I am hooked on something about you. I am looking for you to provide something I am not getting at home. You have my attention and are in control. Spice it up now!! Do things differently. Tell me we are going to have a "no talk" session. Next time, tie me up and use me riding me until I can take anymore, them blow me to attention and then ride me some more. The next time, experiment with toys.
You have my attention and I am drawn to you if we have had more than 3 visits. Own me in ways that push my limits.
** Special note here **
Please understand that there are limits. You need to know what those are by talking and asking questions.