why no AA providers? what is wrong with us?

Black chicks are like avocados: Nothin' better than eatin' a good one; nothin' worse than eatin' a bad one. Originally Posted by roaringfork

LOL! hadn't ever heard it put that way...

Me neither...I sure love avocado though mmmmmm .

Well said Brandy

You most definitely have to have tough skin in this industry. You're not going to be like by all with that being said, you have to figure out why you're here. Most seem that once they are here the money will start flowing in that's not true for most. Some have to work a little harder being extra professional and going above and beyond in communication skills to earn business. Answer all emails and messages even if they are asking something that you're not interested in, politely reply back if you feel that its not a good fit.

My answer why some AA have a limited menu when I first started in this industry 5 years I had a limited menu I was CBJ, no DATY or DFK. My reason was why would men want to do all these things with me if they knew I was seeing other guys that was not normal and my thinking as time passed I had gradually increased my menu. If you decide to change do it for yourself and not for popularity or tones of reviews.

BM Originally Posted by BrandyMichelle

The hobby is about preference, we all have them. Men don't see me that are attracted to spinners or don't like short hair. As a mature provider I have got nasty emails saying I was too old to be doing this. I think humm I ain't too old to play What does his little mind think delete.... We all get have our needs & desires of what we like. If the guys are not calling maybe change things up, reinvent yourself, new well done pictures, change up your schedule. Try not to feel like it's racial because there are some real awesome guys out there for anyone who treats the guy right.

Black chicks are like avocados: Nothin' better than eatin' a good one; nothin' worse than eatin' a bad one. Originally Posted by roaringfork

Ain't it that truth. LOL.... I love women period. Thick, small, fine, yella, white, balck, asian, mixed, stallions, bubble booty, flat booty, or whatever you can think of. The only thing I don't like is when we are BCD and I don't feel like I'm am the object of your desire for that whole hour.

I got to chime in, but If I ever find the one that is of my type, I will check that off my bucket list. Well my type is Halle Berry or Tyra Banks, i.e got to be good to great face. I am sure one day I will come across one here. Altough One did but she dissappeared before I could pull the trigger :-)

Seems like a larger % of AA providers have one of the following turn offs for us 40+ cracker hobbyists:

1. Too much ink, esp ghetto, thug life crap
2. BBW (maybe not in AA community but thick nonetheless).
3. Crappy/cheap/scary incall
4. Too much bright cherry red lipstick
5. Background music tends towards rap.
6. Reek of smoke, either cigarette or other.

All of the above can happen w non-AA girls but it has happened to me MUCH more often w/AA girls. Originally Posted by Bobster36

Just, wow...

yes those are some hot pix. definitely looked previously and am interested. what i am looking for is a cute black girl with the body of a petite asian. 5' 100 lbs. small/medium boobs. my phone lines are open ladies. Originally Posted by Juan Pablo de Marco

How about Lil Mama?

I must say however, it is funny how people like to pretend like black people are crazy, and no one is discriminating against us. Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

It's not funny how some black people like to blame everything on racism when there are so many other possible reasons for people to treat a black person a certain way.

I'll say something that may be unpopular with some here: racism is when someone is discriminated against for the color of their skin. Discriminating against someone for ANY other "cultural" characteristics is not racism.

Don't like cheap tattoos? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like rap? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like improper English? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like R&B? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like pimps? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like bright lipstick? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like bad neighborhoods? Doesn't make you racist.

I've got a friend that hates the fact that his other friends call him the "whitest black guy ever" because he speaks proper English, is polite to everyone, wears his pants around his waist, and doesn't do drugs. He hates the fact that his black friends equate being a good citizen with being white.

Yeah, there's racism in this world, but don't automatically point the finger at the white folks. Especially not in this community where there are so many other things that can turn a guy on or off.

I saw the OP 2 weeks ago need to write her review- I think she has a lot of potential- good sessions- I didn't see or experiences any of the negatives that some people associate with AA ladies- I think there are some thins she can add and they are very minor- will explain in review- but the OP is good to go and there are many great AA providers on this site.

How about Lil Mama? Originally Posted by Crock

She wrote down that she is Hispanic, not Black. She is pretty, though.

Damm...Lil Mama is fine, hopefully she will be spending time here in Dallas......

It's not funny how some black people like to blame everything on racism when there are so many other possible reasons for people to treat a black person a certain way.

I'll say something that may be unpopular with some here: racism is when someone is discriminated against for the color of their skin. Discriminating against someone for ANY other "cultural" characteristics is not racism.

Don't like cheap tattoos? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like rap? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like improper English? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like R&B? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like pimps? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like bright lipstick? Doesn't make you racist.
Don't like bad neighborhoods? Doesn't make you racist.

I've got a friend that hates the fact that his other friends call him the "whitest black guy ever" because he speaks proper English, is polite to everyone, wears his pants around his waist, and doesn't do drugs. He hates the fact that his black friends equate being a good citizen with being white.

Yeah, there's racism in this world, but don't automatically point the finger at the white folks. Especially not in this community where there are so many other things that can turn a guy on or off. Originally Posted by Crock

Here is a definition of racism- "a highly organized system of 'race'-based group privilege that operates at every level of society and is held together by a sophisticated ideology of color/'race' supremacy"

Discrimination is the actions of racist beliefs.

None of the things you listed individually would make you a racist. It is racist that you associate all of those things with only black people when they apply to all races.

Who else would one point the finger at?

Here is a definition of racism- "a highly organized system of 'race'-based group privilege that operates at every level of society and is held together by a sophisticated ideology of color/'race' supremacy"

Discrimination is the actions of racist beliefs.

None of the things you listed individually would make you a racist. It is racist that you associate all of those things with only black people when they apply to all races.

Who else would one point the finger at? Originally Posted by !!Sexy Erotic Morgan

+1000000 Morgan- and it's been way too long since we had a session.

Im sooo thrown off with the bright red lipstick being brought up...maybe its a DFW thing bc I never see it.

It's not funny how some black people like to blame everything on racism when there are so many other possible reasons for people to treat a black person a certain way.

I'll say something that may be unpopular with some here: racism is when someone is discriminated against for the color of their skin. Discriminating against someone for ANY other "cultural" characteristics is not racism.

Don't like cheap tattoos? Doesn't make you racist. Are you implying that tattoos- regardless of price is an AA fad and that other races don't get tattoos?
Don't like rap? Doesn't make you racist. Go to youtube- and look up a live concert by any top rapper and tell me who do you see in the audience? Majority White- also it's proven more whites buy rap CD's than other races:http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...090702048.html
Don't like improper English? Doesn't make you racist. One can easily say that about Rednecks Aint, YALL, Fixingto or finna to are not proper English words either.
Don't like R&B? Doesn't make you racist.Again music is music- some like R & B some don't some like Country some don't- I know some whites who don't like country music or Heavy Metal
Don't like pimps? Doesn't make you racist.If you think only Black girls have pimps than you really need help- heck just simply go to WW and the discussion about white girls with NBA has been discussed to death so I won't go there.
Don't like bright lipstick? Doesn't make you racist.This is very odd- I actually don't know any AA who wears bright red lipstick- most AA's I have seen wear no lipstick or just lip gloss where did you get this from? I will almost assure you that you go to any cosmetic store they will tell you that sales of bright lipstick are being purchased more so by whites or hispanics
Don't like bad neighborhoods? Doesn't make you racist.Bad neighborhoods have all sorts of races residing- the majority of AA girls who post here have safe incalls- unless you are referring to BP girls

I've got a friend that hates the fact that his other friends call him the "whitest black guy ever" because he speaks proper English, is polite to everyone, wears his pants around his waist, and doesn't do drugs. He hates the fact that his black friends equate being a good citizen with being white. I have had white friends who would be ostracized by fellow whites because they listen to rap music, had friend that were black dated AA women- wore "Hip Hop Clothing"- they were called "Wiggers". Also, because your "friend" wears his pants around his waist, polite to everyone and doesn't do drugs what the fuck does that have to do with his race???? Are you saying being mean to people, pants sagging and doing drugs is a blac trait?

Yeah, there's racism in this world, but don't automatically point the finger at the white folks. Especially not in this community where there are so many other things that can turn a guy on or off. Originally Posted by Crock

I am going to point the finger at you because your statements just show how stupid you are for making those dumb ass stereotypes- just for starters google any source of rap sales- over 70% of rap sales are purchased by whites