Totally agree with Jimmy and Sparrow...
She sees whom she wishes to, when she wishes and they have to 'interest' her sufficiently...good for her! She doesn't need their money..even better! Not a clock watcher, an amazing fuck and a sex guru..awesome! Why is she mad at other providers for not being 'independent' like her?
This whole rant makes less sense when you start calling out other providers and their practices. She is independent and very individualistic and they are dependent. So? Expecting everyone to be like her is almost comical. And then blaming the providers for the client's actions is frankly absurd.
Can you blame the client for being paranoid to think perhaps the session was moving in a direction he wasn't ready for yet? Why does it have to be that he was 'programmed' to want more blow? It could be that he needs to be more ready for his own self esteem or to perform to his expectations or a myriad of reasons only he (who is paying) knows or could be that he just wanted more of it right at that moment just like she needed dick right at that moment. It would be very hard to comment on something not knowing how things were communicated between her and the client at that moment...not sure if the issue was that of communication, chemistry or of expectations frankly.
I think we all know what most of the ladies mean when they use the word 'Independent'. It is vastly different from CD3's context.
I get CD3's point and it's awesome for a provider to be honest, not be an IOP practitioner and get what SHE needs out of the session and respect the fact that she is 'independent'...