if you could have 1 provider free

No such thing as freebies in the hobby world so no choice

None. It's like half off lap dance time a stripclub, the service is going to be shitty.

That's my initial reaction to free ANYTHING at least.

None. It's like half off lap dance time a stripclub, the service is going to be shitty. Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

How wrong you are. So much depends upon why it is free.
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This thread started with Sonya, and it's hard to find a better option who's still active above the radar. She'd be in my top 3 for certain. The other two never were on ASPD or here.

Explain, Old Wise T!

(or should I read the thread, I haven't even read the thread all the way)

Explain, Old Wise T!

(or should I read the thread, I haven't even read the thread all the way) Originally Posted by Doc Holliday

No, as far as I know it's not in the earlier part of the thread, but I'll elaborate on my comment.

Whether a free session is half-hearted or spectacular depends upon why the session is free. If it's something the lady in question feels obligated to do, then I agree it is likely to be worth what one paid for it.

But I've had an occasional evening that was free because the lady I was with WANTED it to be free. A whole different dynamic when it's her choice/desire/preference. The last one was several years ago with a lady who had been out of the business for a couple years but we had stayed in e-mail touch as long distance friends. She had quit to try and make a romantic connection with a guy work, and started working in a field related to my work. I pointed her towards a company I knew was hiering and gave her a good introduction; she didn't get that job but she appriciated that I would try to help. While she was retired we'd occasionally talk about things related to her new career, a very informal mentoring.

Eventually she wrote me and said she had broken it off with the guy was getting back into escorting part time and asked me if I wanted to be her first date. I expected to pay but when I gave her the envelope she refused, saying it was a "thank you" for my staying in touch and treating her like a "real person", never pressuring her for anything sexuall when she wasn't in the business. I just let her run the show that night and it was a rather memorable evening in all the good ways.

Nice. I think part of the experience was it being a surprise, wouldn't you say?

I agree. I was not expectng it at all and that was part of it--had I known she was thinking that I suspect there would have been some conflicting feelings. We were (are) friends but never more that that. She would occasionally give me a special rate but anything BCD was always paid for.