The only bad aspect of bringing your own is that the provider did not get to try the strapon on to see how it fits. I had PMed a provider in Dallas about strapon play thinking I would be in Dallas for an interview for a really good job. She mentioned needing a new one and would I go to the adult store to help her pick one out. I PMed her hell yes I would go. The company I would interview with found out I had to relocate(even though I told them I needed no help to relocate) and the compnay cancelled the interview.