To the OP - just be yourself. Those that want to see you will, and those that don't won't. We've all been there, and you'll likely graduate to having a series of fantastic sessions with an ATF suddenly end when they retire, move away or just decide they no longer want to see you. It's all part of this crazy hobby world we all inhabit...
What you can never do, is post in co-ed about it and open yourself up to getting eviscerated by a provider that evidently buys ink by the barrel and uses her pen like a rapier.
Seriously, I've never seen Miss V before, but I'm as turned on by her carefully worded posts as her showcase pics.
I'm pretty sure I'll be sending a respectful, genetalia free session request PM her way very soon...