The escort industry isn't a great place for weak personalities. You have to have the ability to be assertive. Toughen up, stand up for yourself and learn to say NO.Well the thing is I do say no and its actully hurting me because most of my first time appointments want a discount and I say no and they cancel...and I did say no when asked for a refund and he gave me a look like I was a bitch. That's why I asked publicly to see if other ladies allow refunds and I was the only one not and I wanted to see what the men had to say about it.
All you're doing now is making excuses for guys that are shitting on you. You're giving them your permission to do it by publically justifying their behavior. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
3 reviews. you had reviews at 120 hr 150 hr 160 hr and 100 for hh. your now charging 150 hh and 200 hr so you have ajusted your rates to what you think is fair so what would the problem be. if you think they are still too low raise them if you feel they got too high lower them. Originally Posted by petiteassmanA few months back I did offer those rates because no one was really willing to see me since I registerd on eccie a yr ago and have not been active due to a few very generous clients and with me not having any reviews I thought it would help. I didn't know it would haunt me and just become a problem later. Now I have to deal with all these problems.
Well the thing is I do say no and its actully hurting me because most of my first time appointments want a discount and I say no and they cancel...and I did say no when asked for a refund and he gave me a look like I was a bitch. That's why I asked publicly to see if other ladies allow refunds and I was the only one not and I wanted to see what the men had to say about it. Originally Posted by Kandy KellyKandy,
Kandy,+1 I agree...
Stand your ground. I think Ginger is correct, this is not a place to be if you don't have a thick skin. I haven't met you, can't speak to your talents BCD, but you are a pretty lady, reviews are good, so go with what you are comfortable with: Tha includes rates, services, screening, etc. Don't let any of us hard asses talk you into anything different.
You might find that these types of questions are best asked & answered in the ladies only forums.
TC Originally Posted by tigercat