Legman is going about this patiently. Giving us the heads-up, giving Kandy the opportunity to make right and there are still guys who act like they are impervious to a woman's charms (ironic considering they're in the habit of paying for pussy) and trying to bust his chops over this.
The men that were considered to not be subject to a woman's influence were usually chosen because they were castrated.
I applaud Legman and hope more come forward if this happens to them.