Providers who "hate" behind the scenes

:hug love: Looking forward to seeing you soon ..

In my experience, the only women who can't have other women as REAL FRIENDS are the ones who are catty themselves, whether it be in your face catty or behind your back catty[/B][/COLOR].[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/CENTER][/I][/B] Originally Posted by JasmineCummings

Quality beats quantity every time. Real friends are hard to come by....
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There is some truth behind that. The same comes when you work in a studio (as i used to do ) and you make more money or you look "better" than others (that does not mean in a derogatory way...) then some women can`t help but make drama behind scenes. It is interesting also, that most likely IMHO the women that don`t really look so good, or are not as smart as they would like to be, have categories where they judge other women at exactly that levels. One woman was so obsessed with looks, she could not even have a single photo of herself where she wasn`t posing. Or some put looks in categories and .... one time i told a woman given her own looks she would most likely end up as a 5 in her own category. And the best are the ones , who think their sexual abilities are so superiour to others. I wonder where some women have these ideas from.....


It would never come to my mind to influence other women`s business or to steal other people`s thoughts and pretend they are mine (like it had it happen...).So, well, as long as you avoid the idiots out there you can have friendships with women. But that is only if you don^t see them as competition. Because, truth is, there is no competition. Everyone is a star at what he/she does. Some times you have to choose different enviroments for work.

I have friends in the provider world, and i mean "real" friends, where i also know profoundly what is going on behind the scenes. I don`t count some pretentious hogwash some providers like to exchange to impress each other ;-) a friendship. Many don`t even seem to know each other well enough to look behind the facades. And i also have friends in regular life, of course. Some of them go back a long time.

I have to admit that i am very strict though, once my trust is broken or i encounter attitudes in people i don`t like , and who don`t change even when you confront them with their bullshit. Or what i truly hate, are liars. Even when it`s so obvious they lie, and you see it, they still go on denying they lied. That is an absolute no-go for me.


That is - for one time - where i like alternative lifestyle, and without wanting to sound snobbish, it was one of the reasons why i chose it. Because i encountered these people to be much more mature when it comes to forming friendships. There is no need to pull off a "show" like it is so much happening in the "ordinary" or "civvie" world.
Simply stated, when YOU log onto any hobby board, YOU are a BUSINESS competing against another BUSINESS....

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach
Yes, Sixx. This is true. However, when does one cross the line from competing as a business and being a downright RAUNCHY person??? Excuse me if I have the wrong impression, but I thought a combination of presentation/marketing/networking was the key to success here. Since when did refusing to give references become acceptable, especially when they are used to ensure safety? I mean, would you HONESTLY think of it that way if a situation like this was preventing you from seeing some hot piece that you've been dying to see?


I like how you do business! "Sigh" Heavy breathing, panting.... Originally Posted by Still Looking
Why, thank you, SL . But trust me when I say... You Ain't Seen Nothin' Yet"...
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Simply stated, when YOU log onto any hobby board, YOU are a BUSINESS competing against another BUSINESS....

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach
I think most people would agree with statement. I don't. Every chick is unique and so different that there really isn't a one on one competion. If the chick would just TCB she would get the business. Think of it like some people drive cars some people drive trucks. Some people like black paint others want blue. There a many different reasons a person buys the car they drive just as there is a many different reason a dude picks a providers. If a dude wants to see a lady he will come up with the money.
I never feel like I am competing whenever I participate on Eccie. Either the guy will want to fuck me or not. I come for the visibility, to input my thoughts where needed, and flirt with some sick perverted men online. That's all.
I never feel like I am competing whenever I participate on Eccie. Either the guy will want to fuck me or not. I come for the visibility, to input my thoughts where needed, and flirt with some sick perverted men online. That's all. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou
We're all sick and perverted.
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We're all sick and perverted. Originally Posted by Shayla
Some of use a little bit more than others!

I once asked a provider to show me her belly button!?

She said that seems very resonalble!

I said...... wait for it............................ ........From the inside! LOL