Providers and their PERIODS!!!

I would not really care, I was married once, I know how it goes! Heck, no different than picking up a random at a bar and waking up to your sheet's being murdered. I worry about guys that freak out about the natural part of life

SPOILER ALERT: The last portion of this post just might gross some folks out. Apologies in advance.

This has been a very interesting thread, and I've been surprised by some of the responses, but enjoyed the different perspective. Honestly, I expected more of an anti-working on the period response that I've seen, so I guess I'm going to be the contrarian here and throw out my two cents here. Apologies to the sisterhood, but I just don't agree that it is OK to throw a sponge up the vajayjay and keep going like its no big deal.

I'm all for truth in advertising in all forms. Whether it is the age and weight stats, recent and accurate pics, or menu availability, the goods delivered should be exactly as advertised and expected.

Based on the responses so far, it is clear that some men aren't deterred by the monthly event. But there is no doubt that others are. Since you don't know whether the guy you are about to see is OK with a red DATY experience or not, it is fair to him to tell him before you book and let him decide. That's truth in advertising. If you can't bring yourself to say "by the way, the river is running, but don't worry, I can use a sponge" before you take the appointment, then don't take the appointment.

Now, I will qualify that by saying that I am not here to tell other women how to run their business. I've said many times that what I love best about escorting is that I get to make my own rules, and that holds true for every other provider as well. But this is where the reviews come in. If a provider wants to continue working on her period, that is her business. Just don't act shocked or offended when the inevitable sponge slip happens, and you get a bad review because of it. Services weren't as advertised, the dude was grossed out, he wrote it up in his review. Get over it. That is the risk you run by working on your period.

Yes, periods do show up unannounced. And Ember you are actually correct. Intercourse can jump start a period 1-2 days earlier than anticipated. So make allowances for it. You know your cycle, so you know when the "red zone" starts, the 2 days before your expected start, and know that an appointment on those days can start things early.

For a different perspective, I once had an appointment where the guy asked to cum on my tits. He spooged, and I excused myself to the bathroom to clean up. When I turned on the light in the bathroom, I almost threw up. His spooge was almost 100% bloody. I vomit in my mouth, clean up, then went and told him he needed to see a doctor right away. He shrugged like it was no big deal and said "Oh, I just had a prostate biopsy, the doctor said that might happen".

REALLY? You fucking piece of shit. You KNEW your spooge was going to be bloody due to a medical procedure and you stuck your bloody dick in my mouth anyways??? I was.....FUCKING......FURIOUS, and rightly so. Not surprisingly, when I posted an alert about him, I got a slew of responses from providers who were similarly outraged. Yet many of the providers who shared my outrage think nothing of using a sponge to cover up the fact that they themselves bleed right through appointments each month.

Ember, I hope you don't take my post as a direct attack on your original post. It is not intended to be. I did note that you mentioned that you don't allow DATY at all, so much of what I just said doesn't apply to you. Intercourse with a condom on a period really isn't that different from any other time of the month. Its when a woman works through a period and allows DATY that I think she should be honest with the guy beforehand. If a provider is grossed out at the idea of sucking a bare cock as in the above example, she should re-think her willingness to let a guy go down on her during her period without telling the guy first. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I have certainly had my differences with Sins in the past, but she is dead on with her comments. I know one very hot traveling provider I will never book with, thanks for the heads up.

Just throwing a sponge up your vaja and keep working without bothering to inform the guys beforehand is total BS. Sorry ladies, just my opinion.

I would not really care, I was married once, I know how it goes! Heck, no different than picking up a random at a bar and waking up to your sheet's being murdered. I worry about guys that freak out about the natural part of life Originally Posted by Saint7

Natural don't make it ok. If it's your SO, that is different, it does happen. At least you know who it is. A stranger or a provider... you want their bloody, body fluids all over you, unexpectedly, go ahead. No different? No need to worry about me cause you have different taste. They should warn you ahead of time, period (pun intended),

Stands up and claps. Here Here Ember. For me it is not gross or a freak out moment. It is a fact of life and I just deal with it and move on. The few ladies I have been with that were on their period or just started have been more turned on and more horny than all get out.

We just did not do DATY, we just used her vibrator to get her motor revved up.
That is an awesome trick Ember, never heard of using a make up sponge before. And yes I have bought tampons or pads for ladies that I knew. Originally Posted by Grizzly

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It is a fact of life. Guys should know this. Our women are people too, and we should treat them with consideration.

But, some guys never outgrow their childhood. They make fun because they don't understand.

My first memory of seeing a woman trying to save the embarrassment of other people knowing was at a rodeo with Miss Kitty from Gunsmoke on stage as one of the MCs trying to save face and hide the spot. Our group had binoculars and the young guys kept giggling. I told them it was time to grow up.

Grow up guys.

JR

So the provider who started this thread doesn't bother to tell the guys beforehand and just keeps working and you're ok with this? Some of us happen to have a different opinion, and with good reason. So if anyone here needs to grow up, maybe it's you.

Are we just bumping year-old threads for the fuck of it now?
Seriously... did they change a rule or something?

Well.... To each their own! However woman to woman... That's some stupid excuse if any woman to say she doesn't know when her period will start! If anyone, man or woman is INTUNED WITH THEIR BODIES... Then one will know when the body is communicating with them. Especially a woman! Some have back problems... Beast tenderness... Headaches... Cramps... Eating more (I do)... And fuck it just feels extra gushy like when u first start... That's how I know! I'm 32 yrs old... That's little girl shit for any woman to say she doesn't know her body... To each their own about the make up sponge tip... Do what u have to do but be considerate of others and inform the man... And let the man make his own manky decision whether he ok or not.... A provider shouldn't make his decision by just thinking of self and the money! But that's my opinion. That's blood! And that's gross and the risk is greater. They tell us not to have sex on periods for many reason. But again to each their own... Personally, I have told many men I'm down for construction... And they respect that because I respect myself and respect them... That time is my time to bond with myself haha. Give ur girl a break jeesh! Oh and If that man says recommend? No. We'll think about it from his stand point. U want him to recommend YOU having sex on ur period to others... U don't want a bad review? Then make it a good review! And give him something GOOD TO say. Duh! Something bad to say = bad review. This is so simple. Play by the rules or don't. It's not left for an exception to the rule because u were careless lol.

Well.... To each their own! However woman to woman... That's some stupid excuse if any woman to say she doesn't know when her period will start! If anyone, man or woman is INTUNED WITH THEIR BODIES... Then one will know when the body is communicating with them. Especially a woman! Some have back problems... Beast tenderness... Headaches... Cramps... Eating more (I do)... And fuck it just feels extra gushy like when u first start... That's how I know! I'm 32 yrs old... That's little girl shit for any woman to say she doesn't know her body... To each their own about the make up sponge tip... Do what u have to do but be considerate of others and inform the man... And let the man make his own manky decision whether he ok or not.... A provider shouldn't make his decision by just thinking of self and the money! But that's my opinion. That's blood! And that's gross and the risk is greater. They tell us not to have sex on periods for many reason. But again to each their own... Personally, I have told many men I'm down for construction... And they respect that because I respect myself and respect them... That time is my time to bond with myself haha. Give ur girl a break jeesh! Oh and If that man says recommend? No. We'll think about it from his stand point. U want him to recommend YOU having sex on ur period to others... U don't want a bad review? Then make it a good review! And give him something GOOD TO say. Duh! Something bad to say = bad review. This is so simple. Play by the rules or don't. It's not left for an exception to the rule because u were careless lol. Originally Posted by Dr. Vanity

Totally agree. You are an intelligent women with rational thinking. You tell things as they are.

However, it is blood. It cleans off. Gross to some, but I have worked with injured people and been covered with blood. Today, people get excited about having a little blood on them. Even if the person is sick, take a shower and wash it off. With a little soap and water any risk goes way down. Sometimes I showered up to six times a day.

Not a big deal.

JR

Thanks JR! And ur right some people have weaker stomachs then others... I have a weak stomach not to even mention the clean up aspect!! Yuck!

So JR, suppose you set up a BnG with a provider. You of course, showered and shaved beforehand, but accidently cut your dick and it started bleeding. Your appt is close at hand so do you feel the need to let her know, or just go through with it hoping she doesn't notice?

And don't sidetrack the issue with you never schedule a BnG because you want more time to spend with the lady. Or say you would use a condom (males version of the sponge?) You know what I'm getting at.

So JR, suppose you set up a BnG with a provider. You of course, showered and shaved beforehand, but accidently cut your dick and it started bleeding. Your appt is close at hand so do you feel the need to let her know, or just go through with it hoping she doesn't notice?

And don't sidetrack the issue with you never schedule a BnG because you want more time to spend with the lady. Or say you would use a condom (males version of the sponge?) You know what I'm getting at. Originally Posted by JS42

" but accidentally cut ur dick "Hilarious!! Smh yall men Crack me up

" but accidentally cut ur dick "Hilarious!! Smh yall men Crack me up Originally Posted by Dr. Vanity

Manscaping accident.

Are we just bumping year-old threads for the fuck of it now?
Seriously... did they change a rule or something? Originally Posted by zeejoe

The 30 day bump rule only applies to reviews!

So JR, suppose you set up a BnG with a provider. You of course, showered and shaved beforehand, but accidently cut your dick and it started bleeding. Your appt is close at hand so do you feel the need to let her know, or just go through with it hoping she doesn't notice?

And don't sidetrack the issue with you never schedule a BnG because you want more time to spend with the lady. Or say you would use a condom (males version of the sponge?) You know what I'm getting at. Originally Posted by JS42

No, I don't really know what you are getting at; and neither does anyone else.

Dah, this is like the old phrase: "U know whada I mean?"

No we don't. If you don't know how to say it, or how to think it out and write it, no one can read your mind. You are way off track.

I have seen enough blood in my life, and worked in both hospitals and morgues when I was younger; I was paying my own way for college and after that I was involved in the war in Nam.

I have been through more boxes of medical gloves than I would like to count. So use the rubber, and don't get too excited if the thing breaks. Having a little blood on you is not a big deal. Just don't leave it on, go wash it off.

Most of the infections take time to have an affect. The germs have to grow and multiply once the get on you to have any affect.

Go wash up!

Don't talk about it. Don't get excited. This is not a big deal, and neither is changing a baby's diaper.

Good grief,

JR

A girl should not be providing anything but a bj in the time frame of a period and let the client know.
In the event it pops up and msog cannot be performed and a girl doesn't provide bbbj than the client should be compensated half the rate back.