Whew, I wish I saw this earlier. It is a Struggle to stay relevant in this Texas Market. Although Austin is supposed to be the best city in Texas for black women, most liberal.
I feel GN and Creamy sometimes you cant win for losing. But I do think that there are other areas of the country whom appreciate women of color much more. I see women in Chicago and New York with lots of review on TER and charging 400+ an hour. Also I get a lot of visiting gentlemen and texas transplants show me the most interest. Luckily men are traveling just as much as escorts. I don't know how I attract these visitors but I am grateful that I do!
I take this escorting business serious! I do all I can to be as great as possible every single time I get a chance! I wont accept an appointment if I know I wont have enough time to make everything perfect for them just the way I feel is up to standard.
I have 40 reviews but I have noticed a lot of other girls who came out at the same time as me have 100 + reviews now, a vocal fan base and seem to have gotten the recognition they deserved for their hard work in about a years time.
I do KNOW that I provide quality, above quality escort services, no man can say that I had them leave without giving 110% effort into making our session a great one.
I do not think that me staying in the south as an escort, I will be able to become the Ultimate upscale courtesan that I know I can be and receive the praise and reviews that I deserve. Too much stigma surrounding black people as a whole down here and not just in the escort industry.
I have learned however that a few clients can be better than being everyone's cup of tea. I have had the delight of a generous gentleman flying me around to meet him in different cities, whom gave me a small fortune over time. So I know that I have what it takes to be on the level of thousands dollars at a time with all expense paid trips and shopping and even tips on top of thousand dollar rates. It definitely helps to believe in a dream when you have already lived it a little.
I also made enough to get breast implants and start a nice savings. So escorting has been a gift in my eyes, I have gotten to go out of the country and afford nice things. I am appreciative and grateful very very much, and
gratitude is what keeps the blessings coming no matter what odds may seem to be against you!
I know I am going to become the provider I want to become with the clients whom suit me best, and I will be able to say that I achieved the goal of becoming a top elite escort courtesan in my eyes. If you can believe it you can achieve it! Keep your heads up black women, only we know our struggle!
Good point. However, among the ladies I've personally met in the hobby, the AA ladies have been less ghetto and less drama prone than the white ones.
They've also seemed more "genuine." The nice ones were nice all the time, the bitches were bitches full time. Fewer Jekyll/Hyde characters. Also, I've run into fewer batshit crazy ones.
There don't seem to be many AA ladies here on ECCIE. It seems to me there are a larger percentage of AA ladies in the provider population at large. Maybe they don't feel welcome stepping in here with all the monkey shitfight assholes. Maybe it's a society thing somehow. Maybe we have a reputation of not booking with AA ladies.
I wish they felt more welcome here.
Here's another post where we re-re-re-rehashed the NBA thread:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...post1051735747
Originally Posted by GneissGuy
We are not welcome here!
I have been in this hobby for more than enough years. I remember when the Caucasian men wouldn't even see a Caucasian women. They always told me they where the scammers they where known for setting up a appointment and taking off with the money.
This was craigslist and eros days. I was in college. I really don't even remember that many Caucasian ladies in this hobby back then. An it was only 8 years ago.
But know I would be lucky if I get 1 call a week. It's just not going to happen in this hobby any more. Every where I go I'm hearing us girls aren't in. Lol.
I have traveled with many girls, I have even had my own little thing going on so I could see what the problem was. I traveled with big Caucasian ladies, I have traveled with Mexican ladies, I even took a Asian lady to New York. All the other girls got more calls then the ladies of color. They just don't prefer the ladies of color any more.
It's just a few Caucasian men left that really love ladies of color. I really prefer the men who doesn't see color, just love women in general. Like I do. I love all women color doesn't matter. As so with men.
Originally Posted by Creamy Kitti
Not true! I have seen the most (unattractive) white women on here with over 100 reviews.
Hallie Berry, Tyra Banks and Vanessa Williams all of these ladies are MIXED!
If you find 5 African American women on here with 50 reviews for what there donations are listed on there showcase as please let me know. So far I only know 3 off top. An even they don't get their donation listed. I see a whole lot of $100 in there review.
I have seen the most beautiful AA women here. IMO look better than 70% of the white women here. With little to no reviews.
But again men now in this hobby aren't paying for AA women looks or the quality of service they provide.
They are donating to the most repugnant, pimped out, $40 motel fair skin ladies. O and did I mention they do anything for anything and have over 50 reviews. 1 man comes in gives another guy high five as the other goes out.
Im not sure what your mean of high paying clientele. But I sure can tell you have not seen it on this site at all. EVER.....These ladies deserve way more money for what they are doing in my opinion. My opinions are my opinions I'm not trying to change anything.
Hay it is a recession......our days of getting $600-$1000 a hour is long over.
Originally Posted by Creamy Kitti
While I am not one to toot my own horn in a vain sort of way. I must disagree with you here.
I (and mostly everyone who meets me) can say that I am highly attractive. Yet a GREAT month for me around these parts is 2 calls a month.
^ NO smoke being blown, no BS. Just straight talk.
I am constantly passed over yet I have absolutely nothing but great press about me.
I even roll my eyes when I read my reviews and see the men who jump on the bandwagon.. ("oh she is great". "Gen is the epitome of a lady." "Pure beast in the bed") but how many have ACTUALLY come to see me? Very slim to none!
They are merely commenting based upon what others have said, seen or done.
I have learned to accept what I can not change in the hobby world.
No matter how much I prove myself to be MUCH different from the pack or continue to maintain a flawless reputation, I will ALWAYS be a second or even a LAST choice for the majority. *shrug of my shoulders* C'est La Vie.
Thank goodness my self esteem isn't tied into all of this. If I were weak, I would have crumbled long before now. LOL

~GN~
Originally Posted by GenesisNicole