Hurt...

grean - seriously, I know I get kidded a lot (that's absolutely ok everybody), but I spend a lot of OTC time with providers... their choice. Mind you, not "free", but not "P4P" either. I'm always taking people out, drinks, nice dinners, movies, nails, shopping, travel, etc... sometimes it's MORE then expensive than session time, sometimes less... But I've never had anyone feel I "wasted" their time... and it's only if they have nothing planned.

In a way, that gets back to this thread - later (in text), she was heatedly telling me how I would have gotten "way more time" as she is not a "clock watcher"...

That's wonderful. Neither am I. And I'm always honest saying, "Look - I'm going to go out to a really nice dinner at 3Forks (or some place) before or after our meeting - and you're free to join me... the meal is on me, but the time is yours"... And, I'm in no way upset with a "no thanks".

But you'd be surprised how many say "Sure! what the hell..." and we have a fantastic time. It's because I treat providers like people, not just business - that's why it happens; and also that I'm kinda that Travolta with Ellen guy... non threatening and funny. And also because, (you guys should tell from my lengthy posts) - I am verbose and a good conversationalist.

Plus - the girls who do this with me - are usually lower volume, so again - that's the level I tend to meet, attract, or hang with anyways.

From a Providers point of view - I can't blame them if a guy on a 1hr appointment spends 59 minutes banging away (their prerogative), and then the girl might be skeptical of spending an extra hour with them OTC, because instead of good meal & conversation - the guys trying to get her to give him a HJ under the table at Denny's.

Everybody here has their own style. Scribe is BFE "Boyfriend Experience"... Have done some amazingly kinky stuff; but its always with someone I know and feel comfortable with... not just a random person. That's why my second, third, +++ encounters with a provider are WAY better than my first. (For me - everybody is different, and there's no right or wrong here).

But that's also why - in this particular case; I get being misunderstood - this thread would have never started with any provider who's seen me once... they would know me to be too genuine. Originally Posted by Scribe

Maybe you need a pet, I suggest a fluffy dog you that can cuddle with you when you're feeling lonely, these women are here to make $ to pay their bills not to find a hangout trick

BFE? It never seems to amaze me the stuff I read on here, can you not find a girl to go out with you somewhere besides a hooker board? perhaps without paying them?

You sound like a sensitive lonely guy, things won't end well if you keep this up here, find a girl that don't require any kind of help and still wants to hang out with you and go from there.

Maybe you need a pet, I suggest a fluffy dog you that can cuddle with you when you're feeling lonely, these women are here to make $ to pay their bills not to find a hangout trick

BFE? It never seems to amaze me the stuff I read on here, can you not find a girl to go out with you somewhere besides a hooker board? perhaps without paying them?

You sound like a sensitive lonely guy, things won't end well if you keep this up here, find a girl that don't require any kind of help and still wants to hang out with you and go from there. Originally Posted by BLM69

Sometimes - people say stuff or write stuff with a meaning in mind - but it comes across as totally different than they expected. That's what this entire thread is about... (Me) saying a single wrong word, and how I didn't appreciate the impact on a single provider.

BLM, I'm sure your next post will be a stumbling retraction; stating how you didn't mean the slur you just cast on every provider (I mean, I offended one - and caught some crap. You just offended the entire Provider community, and did it in a thread read by a lot of Providers. Dude, yours are big AND shiny!)

It's ok - I, above all "get it"... you were trying to make some kind of a slight on me. People will see that. You didn't think before you wrote that - falling into the impression that this was a private conversation.... like Trump with that "Grab em by the pussy" comment.

It's ok - I was honestly just trying to get a clarification on a Provider's schedule - some people saw that too.

But after seeing all the negative press I got over the wrong choice of a single word - you actually wanted to point out that you feel:

• All the women here are incapable of wanting to see a guy for anything but P4P? So they are incapable of a regular life beyond this? Once a whore always a whore? (JUST a whore?)
• That the women here are degradable and less than RW women?
• That women in the RW are superior to these women because of the job these women have chosen? and that the fact that the act of payment makes them inferior people? And the fact that RW women can be sluts doesn't matter, because they aren't on this board - that makes them "better"?
• That all the women here are "needy" - and all of them need "help"?

Whoa-o-o-oooh Lord. Good luck with that philosophy. Good luck with posting those types of sentiments on a board that (in its own way) is as much about reviewing us for them; as them for us.

Let me be clear, BLM.

I have dated and married many women in the RW - and quite frankly - I would probably take ANY woman here over any woman there...

You know what they are here?

HONEST

You know what they are there (RW)? Hypocrites. Liars. Cheaters.

I'm not even going to read what you have to say, good luck with everything

My advice if you are interested in multiple hours simply send messages I saw you give discounts for multiple hours. What would you want for a 3 hour session? Or however many hours you were interested in. She responds and you say sounds good when can you schedule that 3 hour session?

Now you have not implied anything What she does before or after that 3 hour window or what you do before or after is irrelevant. Another way to say this is keep it simple.

My advice if you are interested in multiple hours simply send messages I saw you give discounts for multiple hours. What would you want for a 3 hour session? Or however many hours you were interested in. She responds and you say sounds good when can you schedule that 3 hour session?

Now you have not implied anything What she does before or after that 3 hour window or what you do before or after is irrelevant. Another way to say this is keep it simple. Originally Posted by ValenTX

Great point VTX. The scenario you describe is valid (and I've been there many times).