Not So Pleasurable Nights

Had something set up today to see Pleasurable Nights aka Hope.
Checked my email this morning and she canceled:

Hi there love. I was notified by a previous provider you have seen that I would not be comfortable during my date with you. So I am giving you immediate notice that I am not comfortable seeing you at this point, please consider this date cancelled.

I apologize I'm contacting you the evening before, however I am contacting you immediately following this notice.
Thank you again for your interest in wanting to see me and I wish you well.
Sincerely, Hope

She wouldnt tell me who or why. I would like to know what was communicated.
Is it ok to contact each of my OKs on p411? Originally Posted by ibechill

Sure, contact all your P411 Okays. You might get an answer & you might not.

However,
A lady doesn't have to tell you who nor why she chose to decline.
Given her message to you (that you posted in public). It looks that she did the respectable thing.
She contacted you a day before, upon her screening you & she gave you an honest no bullshit answer as to why she chose to decline meeting.
*she didn't feel comfortable* proceeding forward in meeting you.
Pretty damn self explanatory.

That's more than what most would say.

It's not your place to know who told her what info about you (during the screening process). We ladies have a right to decline any hobbyist as we deem fit.

Respect it and move on.

This more towards the ladies.
Should she have made contact with the P411 OKs before setting up the appt? The appt was set up days ago. She told me this morning. Our appt was at noon.

Am I in the wrong for wanting to know who said what? Originally Posted by ibechill

Perhaps she did contact providers before setting up the date.
Perhaps some responded with a *yeah I saw him* or he was OK.
Perhaps some didn't respond back when others did.
Perhaps she accepted the feedback she received & then booked with you. Only to hear back the day before from another other reference with not so good informative information that lead the provider to give you notice and respectfully decline meeting.

You have no way of knowing what she did prior to booking a date with you. So don't assume.
Lastly, in your first post, you mentioned that she let you know the night before. Yet your second post contradicts your first post when you state in 2nd post: she told you this morning and your session was for noon.

It's a privilege to spend time with a woman. Not a right.
To complain about it, is pathetic.


Ladies, continue to hobby safely & wisely!!

Ibechill,,,,,,,,,,
I have had a tendency in the past to attempt to stop you, when it is clear you are in the process of putting your foot in your mouth. I have sent you pm's asking you to chill out. I have even closed "nonsense" threads you started after closing others you were involved in that involved controversal subjects to this hobby. For whatever reason you continue to march on. At some point, self restraint needs to take over and allow you time to ponder what you are really angry about, and why is it you must use this hobby board as a forum to holler to the top of your lungs "WHY ME". It's not about you. If a provider does not want to see you. She has a right to decline the offer and that is how it works. for you to want to take it out on her an bring this to the board, is not cool, petty and childish. You have been given a lot of leeway in the past, but this time you need a cooling off period and perhaps since you don't need this particular hobby............How about knitting, gardening or anything else you can occupy your time with while you are away....................BYE!!!

this has gotten pretty bad and did not have to go where it went disrespectful and embarrassing

damn he got the BANNED tagline

sucks for him

should have put that shovel down when I said to

He earned his vacation.

Hope that wasn't his version of playing chess. Jus sayin

All I can say is GEEZUS, Hope made the right decision. What a creep. Glad you don't need the hobby, good riddance!!

And good luck getting a mod to delete your thread. Even if they did, the damage is so very done. It's laughable that you would even act like you want it deleted for the sake of someone other than yourself. You've already shown what a pig you are, now you expect us to believe you want it deleted because you're just that kind of guy? Please.

You've shown zero class in this thread so don't try and start now, you are on a roll so ride it on out....and keep going! Originally Posted by Dannie

amen!!! what a douchy guy!

.......and someone didn't thinck I "knew" anything............this thread may get closed at some point.........but, it should NEVER go away.........it should sit here as a reminder of what fucktard means.

Ibechill,,,,,,,,,,
I have had a tendency in the past to attempt to stop you, when it is clear you are in the process of putting your foot in your mouth. I have sent you pm's asking you to chill out. I have even closed "nonsense" threads you started after closing others you were involved in that involved controversal subjects to this hobby. For whatever reason you continue to march on. At some point, self restraint needs to take over and allow you time to ponder what you are really angry about, and why is it you must use this hobby board as a forum to holler to the top of your lungs "WHY ME". It's not about you. If a provider does not want to see you. She has a right to decline the offer and that is how it works. for you to want to take it out on her an bring this to the board, is not cool, petty and childish. You have been given a lot of leeway in the past, but this time you need a cooling off period and perhaps since you don't need this particular hobby............How about knitting, gardening or anything else you can occupy your time with while you are away....................BYE!!! Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

Good Lord..after reading that..my panties got wet....thanks Soul

All I can say is WoW!

herding cats is a difficult task................playing checkers when he thought he was playing chess.............twat swatted.....TFF

Ibechill,,,,,,,,,,
I have had a tendency in the past to attempt to stop you, when it is clear you are in the process of putting your foot in your mouth. I have sent you pm's asking you to chill out. I have even closed "nonsense" threads you started after closing others you were involved in that involved controversal subjects to this hobby. For whatever reason you continue to march on. At some point, self restraint needs to take over and allow you time to ponder what you are really angry about, and why is it you must use this hobby board as a forum to holler to the top of your lungs "WHY ME". It's not about you. If a provider does not want to see you. She has a right to decline the offer and that is how it works. for you to want to take it out on her an bring this to the board, is not cool, petty and childish. You have been given a lot of leeway in the past, but this time you need a cooling off period and perhaps since you don't need this particular hobby............How about knitting, gardening or anything else you can occupy your time with while you are away....................BYE!!! Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

Thank you so much, Ike. Houston is lucky to have a mod like you.

Jules when are you bringing your sexy ass to Houston?

Thank you Soulman Ike

The problem with backing people into a corner is many times they CAN'T stop defending themselves or their position, even though a part of them may want to. Piling on and adding conflicting posts only make it worse. Don't need a DOZEN people telling you (usually in some insultive manner) to chill out or move on. Sometimes it best to not say anything to a riled up poster and just let him or her calm down on their own.

So does this mean I shouldn't pile on by telling you to chill out and move on............maybe this can become a 2fer...........