I had to have some explain what this was to me Kobayashi Maru, sorry to the OP I'm not a Star Treck fan . Now having a better knowledge of it I am able to reply also I am no longer in time out . We are faced in life with many no win situations . But it's not about wining or losing . It always about doing what is right .
Heres a definition of integrity -you are honest and firm in your moral principles
Well that's a loaded meaning . Whats honest and fair to one person may not mean the same thing to another . Im not sure we will ever know how the OP was feeling when this thread started or what the no win was, they were struggling with . It's definitely difficult to know these things behind a phone or a keyboard . Its only perception and can be taken in so many ways , good or bad .
I am a girl that that stands by a person no matter what . Example : I was with a x boyfriend on vacation and he cut the guy off while driving . When we got to the hotel , well the guy was not very happy .
He immediately started yelling in the parking lot .I was like baby this was totally your fault , but Im going to take care of it . The gentleman was still yelling and calling names , so I started raising my voice and being firm back . Telling him I was calling the police on him if he did not Shut the F**K up . He was so drunk so Im sure he did not want that . He then walked away as he called me names under his breath lol . When me and my X boyfriend got back to the room , I was honey that was messed up lol . You were totally in the wrong but I love you wrong or right and will always take your side . But now you owe me sex and room service for me looking like a idiot
With that example of a true situation , I am loyal to a fault which also goes with integrity and morals .
But some may read this and say that was wrong of me . There again we all have different ways we handle things . The OP was going through something they felt was a no win . Thats their perspective and that's ok , we all see things differently .
What I do know is Ginger Doll had my back no matter what the hell this thread was about or who it was intended for . Her and I hit a big bump in the road this year for the first time since I known her which is over a decade . But at the end of the day she still defended me and showed me I was her friend and she is mine . I know there's a lot on here that don't approve of Ginger , but I do and If that means you not being my friend because I care about her , that's your choice of integrity or morals . If your my friend I stick by you no matter what . Good friends are good to have to know they will always be by you no matter what happens .
