FOR PROVIDERS ONLY... WHY, Just Tell Me Why!

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Surcher, get a life! You are so obsessed with me it's not even funny. If you think I'm such a waste of time, liar, troll, etc, then why spend so much time talking about me? LOL! MOve on, and don't even pay attention to me. I know everything about being an escort because I am one. If my opinions or views offend you in some way, then they must APPLY to you. If my posts about clingy clients offends you, again, it must be because it applies to you.

I will be calling "Still Looking" when I have some time to really chit chat with the fella. I don't expect anything to come of it but if he truely wants to chat with me, then I will call. I have been busy with a few things lately. Namely, I've met up with some regulars. I am taking it easy still, since I had BA last month. I would like to get to know anyone who wants to get to know me. But I shall tread very carefully, never jumping in with both feet or making any hasty decisions. Still Looking with get his call. Incognito Isis has left the building. Originally Posted by incognito isis
You two should get a room, kiss and make nice! I think we all understand being busy. I'll be in the air from 6-11am Central time. But then I'll have my ears on
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^^^^^^
Very similar to why I have been single with nobody in my life for years after getting divorced. I don't want anybody either unless they have their act together and, so far, I have yet to meet a girl who does much less her being a working gurl. I tried it before with a wg and there are many reasons why that is part of my past. Heck, the civies have a hard enough time as it is so I don't waste my time trying anymore with wg's. Besides, sites lile this give me a cheap thrill when threads like this run. On the flip side, when I do find a lady who is level-headed enough to contribute 100% to a real relationship, I will take notes and see what is what then. Until that happens, I am munching my popcorn, drinking my coke and laughing between bites while being footloose and fancy free.

As far as why the chic's pursue the bad boys, eh, it's the thrill of the chase just like Why Men LOVE Bitches, 9-781580-627566. Not hard really but it is counter-intuitive. Originally Posted by PhantomofTheOpera
I Understand!
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Surcher, get a life! You are so obsessed with me it's not even funny. If you think I'm such a waste of time, liar, troll, etc, then why spend so much time talking about me? LOL! MOve on, and don't even pay attention to me. I know everything about being an escort because I am one. If my opinions or views offend you in some way, then they must APPLY to you. If my posts about clingy clients offends you, again, it must be because it applies to you.

I will be calling "Still Looking" when I have some time to really chit chat with the fella. I don't expect anything to come of it but if he truely wants to chat with me, then I will call. I have been busy with a few things lately. Namely, I've met up with some regulars. I am taking it easy still, since I had BA last month. I would like to get to know anyone who wants to get to know me. But I shall tread very carefully, never jumping in with both feet or making any hasty decisions. Still Looking with get his call. Incognito Isis has left the building. Originally Posted by incognito isis
I'm simply trying to get a buddy, who can't, or wont accept the fact he's wasting his time, to at least stop wasting his time on you. Gia must be a huge fantasy for him, lol. I'm not obsessed with you and the only thing that offends me is your bullshit!

"I will be calling "Still Looking" when I have some time to really chit chat with the fella." You're so busy you don't yet have time for a call? Bullshit! If you're so busy, perhaps he should schedule ahead of time to insure you can fit 10, or even 15 minutes into your day for his chat, so he doesn't cut into your posting and regular's time. I shall tread very carefully, never jumping in with both feet or making any hasty decisions. He's not asking you to fuck, move in or marry him, just talk!
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ISIS Surcher

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Let's call it a draw
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ISIS Surcher

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Let's call it a draw Originally Posted by Still Looking
Dude, you can't stop contacting her and her bullshit about getting the attention and compensation she deserves once she became an escort, that she's so busy she wont see a new guy for dinner without full compensation, yet, you offer both and get ignored and put on hold. She ain't biting. Sorry, but the nice guy isn't going to win here, even if she does find time in her busy, nonworking schedule to call you. I was going to tell her to shit or get off the pot, to call you and stop leaving you hanging with hope when there is none. Now, I say cut and run. If she follows, great.
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Surcher I certainly know where you’re coming from. And perhaps you’re right. The ball has been in ISIS court for some time now. And it is what it is!

I received an interesting PM from a provider. Her thought.... providers are not going to tell you why they are drawn to the "BAD BOYS" they can't help it! But when the bad boys are done with them or they're done with the bad boys they go running to the "GOOD BOYS" Sounds like if we all went to the dark side it might throw off the balance in the universe.
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Surcher I certainly know where you’re coming from. And perhaps you’re right. The ball has been in ISIS court for some time now. And it is what it is!

I received an interesting PM from a provider. Her thought.... providers are not going to tell you why they are drawn to the "BAD BOYS" they can't help it! But when the bad boys are done with them or they're done with the bad boys they go running to the "GOOD BOYS" Sounds like if we all went to the dark side it might throw off the balance in the universe. Originally Posted by Still Looking
Girls who are attracted to "bad boys" know what they sign up for.

Real problem are "bad boys" who have capacity and duplicity to act as "good boys" albeit for limited amount of time.

Lina
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Girls who are attracted to "bad boys" know what they sign up for.

Real problem are "bad boys" who have capacity and duplicity to act as "good boys" albeit for limited amount of time.

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina
Hey Sensual Lina, so nice to get a providers perspective. They have been few and far in between.

So am I getting this right...girls are in fact attracted to bad boys, but even good boys are bad boys as they are just acting good for a limited amount of time?

So is that like... ALL dogs have fleas. When shopping for a dog, look for the one that scratches the least!?
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The Ugly Truth


Seems like what providers that are going to weigh in have done so. So here is my prospective. Woman, are in fact attracted to Bad Boys. While it happens for several reasons it’s a fact. Woman like getting screwed just like men, they just don’t like getting screwed over! Like all relationships they start out physically. Men like what they see and more often than not woman do also. But woman like what they hear. So if you’re a Bad Boy and say the right things… your in! So why do we have 6-7 out of every 10 marriages fail? The answer is simple… SELFISHNESS! Even nice guys or good boys fall victim. Here is why. We start out ALWAYS putting are best foot forward. But once we get comfortable, things change. A guy can start out sending flowers, cards, cookies, candy, jewelry and on and on. That’s how it starts but that doesn’t last forever. The fact is, you run like hell to catch the bus, but once you’re on it, you stop chasing. And that’s where the trouble starts. You have to respect a bad boy. In most cases they just don’t give a shit. Yet girls are attracted to them. Once they realize they will in fact ALWAYS be bad boys they usually seek cover. What’s funny is, if the bad boy wants her back he merely moves over to the good boy category and guess what happens. They come running back. So girls really want good boys, the problem is they want the bad boys to be good.

In this thread someone said,

Are you fucking kidding me? What is this, junior high?

The reason chicks like us bad boys
is because we DON'T send them sappy YouTube songs. We DON'T recite cheesy poetry or song lyrics. We DON'T call them the "sun" or the "moon" or any other Hallmark card shit.

No, they like us because we're NOT like their girlfriends...and we have big cocks...

This is a bad boy attitude, and guess what it works. But being a good boy works also. Is this junior high? You dam right, it always has been. In junior high bad boys are bad and good boys are good. Some things just never change. When it’s all over and time passes nobody wants to be with someone that just doesn’t give a shit!

Watch the movie “The Ugly Truth” all of this is played out. At the end the BAD BOY gets the girl. But not because he’s a bad boy…. Because he turned out to be a GOOD BOY!

And that my fellow hobbyists and providers is the UGLY TRUTH!

For me I'll continue being a Good Boy, I guess I just haven't found anyone that I want bad enough to become a BAD BOY!

Still Looking’s “BLACK JACK 21” Most sought after LOOK A LIKE’S

1) Gia Carargi 11) Laura Linney
2) Marisa Tomei 12) Madeleine Stowe
3) Kate Hudson 13) Gemma Atkinson
4) Diane Lane 14) Keeley Hazell
5) Monica Porter 15) Jessica Biel
6) Sarah Palin 16) Kate Beckinsale
7) Alice Eve 17) Megan Fox
8) Julia Armond 18) Leira Knightley
9) Winona Ryder 19) Heidi Klum
10) Charlize Theron 20) Katherine Heigl
21) Denise Richardson

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Still Looking’s “BLACK JACK 21” Most sought after LOOK A LIKE’S

1) Gia Carargi 11) Laura Linney
2) Marisa Tomei 12) Madeleine Stowe
3) Kate Hudson 13) Gemma Atkinson
4) Diane Lane 14) Keeley Hazell
5) Monica Porter 15) Jessica Biel
6) Sarah Palin 16) Kate Beckinsale
7) Alice Eve 17) Megan Fox
8) Julia Armond 18) Leira Knightley
9) Winona Ryder 19) Heidi Klum
10) Charlize Theron 20) Katherine Heigl
21) Denise Richardson

Originally Posted by Still Looking
You are looking for much, are you? I think we can find you some look a like drag queens!
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You are looking for much, are you? I think we can find you some look a like drag queens! Originally Posted by surcher
Sorry TS are exempt. Hey I'm not looking for twins... "Look A Likes" Hell if theres a Gia I figured it wouldn't hurt to find out if any others are out there!
Easy: Bad-boy syndrome. Women are drawn to bad boys just like men are drawn to crazy chicks and moths are drawn to flames.
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Easy: Bad-boy syndrome. Women are drawn to bad boys just like men are drawn to crazy chicks and moths are drawn to flames. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward
That's because the crazy ones are always great in the rack. I only look for half crazy btw.
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Easy: Bad-boy syndrome. Women are drawn to bad boys just like men are drawn to crazy chicks and moths are drawn to flames. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward
Eloquently true!

That's because the crazy ones are always great in the rack. I only look for half crazy btw. Originally Posted by simpleton
You might be on to something here!?
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Easy: Bad-boy syndrome. Women are drawn to bad boys just like men are drawn to crazy chicks and moths are drawn to flames. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward
You can keep crazy chicks. The last thing I want in my life is a nut job! However, if you mean an open-minded, uninhibited woman, LIKE YOU, sign me up!