EBONY or EBONY MIXED LOVERS is it just me. . .

IDK maybe I'm crazy and I've let stereotypes build up from living in small town Iowa. In retrospect this sounds like a lot of rambling slim gonna stop now before I'm buried too deep. Lo! Originally Posted by Cubsfan81

It's good you stopped. I've never encountered guys in Iowa worrying about that before (that i'll speak in slang when they meet me). I've been to Des Moines and a few other IA cities quite a few times (last visit has been a while tho). You said "I've had too many experiences in my life where that is the case (ebonics/slang)" but were many experiences of that within the hobby or...?

Sadly i've had quite a few gents in MUCH larger cities/metro areas surprised I speak "so properly" and/or without an accent (i'm of Caribbean descent but I was born here in the U.S. and i'm 3rd generation on my father's side actually). Which is odd to me because I think I write fairly well and don't go out of my way to write in slang. I would think if a gent actually paid attention to how I write my ads, wrote up my website or how I "speak" through my many posts online he would know he's NOT going to suddenly get Sheneneh in person.

I've hobbied for many years, but due to my rural location, only a few times per year. My primary goal is to achieve variety; and my initial choices are made strictly on the body type to which I'm attracted and the activities offered. I could care less what ethnicity a provider is if she's got a smokin hot body and is BBBJ friendly. In all of my years, I've only repeated with four providers and one of them was the incredible AA Bianca Lee of St. Louis. My experience includes numerous AA and Latina providers and they have all been beautiful, friendly and professional ladies with whom I would have no hesitation having on my arm at dinner or an event. Now, I just need to see an Asian courtesan. I haven't done that yet for no particular reason -- it's on my bucket list.

I'm pretty new to the hobby myself but I have no preference for ethnicity. I'm in a small town so I have to travel to Dallas for my play dates and the variety of ladies in Big D is astounding to me.

I just popped my ebony cherry a few days ago with a super sweet young AA lady and I had a complete blast. And she was from Kansas of all places, lol. Next up, an asian doll or a spicy latina.

I say do who you like and who makes you feel good!

I've hobbied for many years, but due to my rural location, only a few times per year. My primary goal is to achieve variety; and my initial choices are made strictly on the body type to which I'm attracted and the activities offered. I could care less what ethnicity a provider is if she's got a smokin hot body and is BBBJ friendly. In all of my years, I've only repeated with four providers and one of them was the incredible AA Bianca Lee of St. Louis. My experience includes numerous AA and Latina providers and they have all been beautiful, friendly and professional ladies with whom I would have no hesitation having on my arm at dinner or an event. Now, I just need to see an Asian courtesan. I haven't done that yet for no particular reason -- it's on my bucket list. Originally Posted by wallywest

Good point hobbyists enjoying variety sex workers in hobby.Sex workers going to make hobbyists have blast on paid time..Sex workers always marketing on internet and websites.groups.and cities marketing business.sex workers not in business for free.Hobbyists enjoy all sex workers on paid time.

I believe there is a certain stereotype associated with ebony or mixed race providers. I myself haven't been discriminated against to my knowledge because of this. With that being saI'd I understand why in some cities this might play a part in gentleman seeing ebony or mixed race ladies due to the negative stereotype that is associated with ebony or mixed race providers. When for the most part the negative stereotype is so far from true!
I'd like to believe Gentleman would like to spend time with a Classy Lady. I believe most Ebony and Mixed Epscale providers carry themselves with the upmost Class.
Hopefully Race doesn't play a part. Originally Posted by msjazmine

You are one sexxxy woman, Jazmine....love the pics in your gallery. Sigh...lotsa real estate between Texas and Kentucky though.....

Whatever make hobbyists happy selecting sex workers.Whatever make sex workers happy selecting hobbyists.Discrimination happen all the time. Hobbyists enjoy all sex workers on PAID time.

This is not for the tender hearted, but i have to ask. Is it just me or do i often see men skip over the most thickest or beautiful ethnic women, to be comfortable with someone of their race that doesn't compare? Its obvious who is the majority on the website. Ladies, do you feel comfortable playing outside of your comfort zone? And Gents, is variety intriguing, or you rather play it safe? Any bad experiences that convinced you to stick to your guns? Please give insight but also clean and honest. Originally Posted by SunniD

I like them all but mixed or black women are my favorite.

All the things I heard or hear to make fun of them (Lip size, skin color) I fucking love.

My dream girl is a black girl with Size A breasts that is about 4'11 to 5'1. 100 110 pounds.

She would think she hit the lottery

“She avoids deep thought like an empty restaurant, not out of stupidity, but a canny resolve to be happy." - Alex Shakar, Luminarium


What I find interesting is how most of these black providers don't see black clients! Some have even stated it in their post on this topic and on other forums. You may call it taste or standards but others will call it racism. Especially when you say things like "I feel safe around white men". REALLY?!?! Talk about PERCEPTION for real!

As for me, I've only see black or mixed women in my personal life and in the hobby... but one thing that is always said - sooner or later - is that most black or mixed women do not like seeing black males. So not only is white America against black males I see a majority of black women and men against their own ethnicity. Just sad. If white America is racist towards black America then they have a lot of black people contributing to the racism as well!

And I'm sure the will be coming around soon. But I am blunt and I call BS when I see it and I see quite a few reasons to call it during this post.

1. I'm not surprised a black woman made this thread. I blacks have even seeking acceptance for years now and still continue to be sought after as safe and non threatening.

2. as a black man back in the day before the liberal media tried to tell you how to live people usually preferred being around their own kind. I know it sounds weird but America and most other countries around the world actually were taught thst.

3. as a black man many providers don't want to see me for something someone else did. stupid and pathetic but that's how it goes, I don't see escorts anymore due to the insults and fighting with providers who want to appeal to other races of men to seem sage and trustworthy.

I expected this and wasn't wrong.

black escorts are scared of being labeled black due to stereotyping and loss of clients, hence the infatuation with the no black men thing, just a way to make a by j. I bet most prefer black men in their personal but can't tell clients due to lack of support.

scared and afraid to build your own home and rather sleep in someone else's.

What's with black or mixed black? I was taught you are not mixed in the head so you are not mixed you a black. I know what's in me but I am a black woman.

Now this not seeing black woman due the risk of them being ghetto I ask would you say I don't see caucasian women due to risk of her being excuse me here trailer broad or trash? Why is it that this is the most common thing you hear across boards? Think about that for a minute.

When gentlemen callers say "you're different" "I see not all of you people act the same" etc I reply you pick the wrong women that's your fault. I mean come on you call the girl & if she is speaking slang don't see her. Above all don't judge from sight alone.

As far as conversation goes most were shocked to see my nails, my hair colors {I love changing my looks as far as hair} I spoke as they call it proper English. Others thought I was the boys but in reality it's their ignorance. I will not lie & say I don't see color because I'm not blind. I've had interactions with many races that were good/bad. I've met guys that had those braid things in their hair, saggy pants etc & nothing yet a dude in a suit robbed me. I give no pass due to color black, white, brown I'm equally cautious. I'm not going to relax because this guy is white & be on defense because he's black. I'm going to be on guard for all. This not wanting to see black women is your choice but to hid it behind not wanting drama{heard this too many times} is insulting/lie. Drama has no color, trouble has no color, ghetto/trashy has no color, thief has no color, ignorance has no color. One just chooses to use ghetto to describe black women & trashy trailer you know what to describe caucasian women. Both not a good idea for a pleasurable encounter.

Well I have trained both and see both. AND ALL Get equal attention . WE ALL LIKE WHAT WE LIKE
Some like blonde hair be eyes some like dark skin dark eyes.
ME personally I prefer in my personal life darker skin and hair and eyes..
I am a blonde light skin light eyes I want the opposite of me.. However that does not discount the fact I have had people that I cared for and was attracted to that did not meet that criterier..