Let me correct you, I don’t ask for anything but “Age, race, occupation, and any recent references?” I know nothing RW unless a client tells me. I even tell them I don’t care to really know where you work or anything because I just want to make sure you’re not crazy or a cop.
I looked up PWs info AFTER he stalked me, sent pictures of my mom and sister to me, talked about the other states I lived in..
I went about several ways to try and get him to leave me alone and he wouldn’t stop. So my next step was to look him up and go to the cops or confront him personally. I’m sure you wouldn’t sleep right at night knowing someone is stalking your life and your family who WERE unaware of this business until he contacted my family and outted me to them. If I’m wrong, I’m wrong. But my safety and well-being come first. He wasn’t going to continue to terrorize my life and have me looking over my shoulder 24/7.
Also check my history. My business has boomed because I don’t post until I have a real issue with something. But because I sat quiet and am now putting this out, im the bad guy. If I’d post EVERY time I had an issue with a client, I’d be a dramafull whore.. there’s no winning. I’m not here to argue either. I don’t care about the ‘No’ review. But my name won’t be drug through the mud. There’s 3 sides to every story. His, hers, the truth. If 2 are on the table, enough is there to find out the truth.
Originally Posted by Ruann soka
Ruann, again you are only making this worse for you and us providers, as I stated it's a sticky situation as is us ladies need to screen to the best of our ability & IMO I don't believe in asking Rw info on any gentleman (which btw I never said that's how you screen) but by the way you came off and are still arguing to prove this point so very hard again IMO is just seem shady.
ESPECIALLY THE STATEMENT YOU MADE ABOUT A HOBBYIST FAMILY!! Regardless of the allegations are true or not you put it in Co-ed which not only did you do that you mentioned messing with someone's family, there other means to this if you chose to go to mods with proof of what you're saying or Le ( if that your thing and if's that serious ) my concern is when you bring FAMILY CHILDREN AND SO in an issue like this it just can't end well.
Hence the backlash already, there just no need for it and especially BRINGING RW ( you know what you mentioned) if that serious proceed, and I stand by this is the very reason the gentleman give us ladies hard time screening even if you do or don't as for RW INFO! I wouldn't want mine out there nor would I want a rep that may lead some to believe I do such a thins (kids and SO family etc...is a topic that shouldn't be brought in to this.
Goodluck again and I hope all these sinks in by now I believe you have made it even harder for the ladies that don't take this route. Temper can flair life not fair but this is the path you chose may recess.
SMH,
CM EDIT: If true about messing with your family and such stalking etc them should have went to the cop....