The popularity is due to it being left behind by men AND women hiding it from their SO.
Originally Posted by n1pplenut
Too true. Had an ex-girlfriend, and I went to visit her one day. Her front door was unlocked (her roomate was on the patio smoking) so I went in. I hear her electric toothbrush on, but the noise was coming from her room. Puzzled, and not thinking straight, I walk in and lo and behold, she's brushing, but it ain't her teeth. She was horribly embarrased, I found it amusing. Went out that night and bought her a nice vibrating dildo with a rabbit attachment and she was very appreciative after that.... She felt bad about it though and hid it, never would use it in front of me.
Back on the original subject. Yes, I love strapon and anal play. My ass is an erogenous zone for me, both outside and in. May not be for you, and that is fine, to each their own. I have a friend who can cum in 30 seconds from playing with her nipples the right way - mine usually I either don't feel it or it is painful, the pleasure zone on my nipples is very small.
Know your body, own your pleasure. Ignore labels, (unless doing something wrong or kinky gives you an added thrill) and if the shoe fits, wear it. If the dildo doesn't fit, use more lube!