Yep, the gaslighting is out of control. If you give a "No" review or even say anything negative, the promoters will say it's your fault. If you have anything negative to say about a girl's appearance, then it's a "hit piece." It's an absolute joke.
The most common gaslighting is for 30 minute appointments. Be expected to take 100% blame if you don't have a good time during a 30 minute appt. Never mind the fact that plenty of guys have a great time during their 30 minute appts......it's your fault for even booking it in the first place. And everyone knows if you want to have a good time, you need 1 hour. Even if that were true, why do studios even offer 30 minute appts? Why does the studio and girl not get any blame?
Also, if you see a provider at night, it's 100% your fault if you have a bad session. The studio and the girl are completely absolved from any blame whatsoever.
Originally Posted by AspenCalifornia
I’ll take the bait on this, not to try and make this sound like I’m defending anyone… I will say I have been critical of the 30 minute visit and with that being said, I never meant for it to sound like I was gaslighting or blaming anyone, I think more people need to see other side of the argument is all (myself included). I think (personally) the 30 is asking for a rush job, but everyone has reasons and just because of the hhr the guy picks, quality of service shouldn’t be worse. I think we can agree on that. For if I did this to anyone I apologize if it came off as gaslighting or blaming.
The last call narrative is not something I have experienced but again I’m also usually an early half of the day guy. With that being said, like I did before, the quality of service shouldn’t change. If it does it needs/should be noted in the review (let the haters hate but most of us here will respect it and take it into account). Also, tell the Booker! We have seen girls up and out of here same week if they have multiple bad reviews, I forget her name but I think it was a J (maybe Jiso?) at SFG that had multiple bad reviews and she was gone quickly. Another was some first time girl at AS, she was gone after like 2 weeks when she said he would be here for a month.
I will say this to the community, we need to start holding the studios more accountable.. Henry had said this repeatedly when I was new on the board and I still tell the studios it to this day, tell the studios if you get a shit session (I believe he said he had them offer discount/make up deals with someone else).. he also said that we needed to start telling studios we will leave if girl doesn’t look similar to the photos (within realize), I have told this to studios when I book, and I have even dipped out once and told studio chick looked nothing like the photos.
Sorry for the rant AC, and quote your post.. but wanted to apologize to anyone who thought I had gaslite them while at the same time telling people we can also do more to get a better product as well (when people come back).