We have some sort of idea that everyone is or should be like us.
Originally Posted by Hermosa
I think you are getting one or more "things" mixed .... or in "juxtaposition"!
First one should resolve the "we" shit ....
... for the most part I want my neighbors to keep their shit in their own yards, which includes, but is not limited to, guests, pets, leaves, children, noise, smells, and trash, and keep the street clear of any and all of the above, not to mention hardware, basketball goals, and unlicensed, unregistered, and unlighted four and three wheelers driven by their unlicensed children.
What they do over there doesn't mean shit to me, as long as I don't see it, hear it, and/or smell it. I "assume" they feel the same way ... so I keep my "shit" in my yard. I do nothing to impede their ingress and/or egress to the residence and/or their enjoyment of their home, so long as it does not interfere with our enjoyment of ours.
Now it is necessary that I engage in commerce involving travel back and forth from engaging in that commerce, and I expect to be able to do so with a minimal amount of negotiating of a gauntlet or obstacle course of guests, pets, leaves, children, noise, smells, trash, hardware, basketball goals, and unlicensed, unregistered, and unlighted four and three wheelers driven by their unlicensed children left parked in the middle of the street .....
.. and it doesn't make me a damn bit of difference what race, nationality, language, and/or religious beliefs are ... good neighbors are good neighbors no matter ... and good "fences" make good neighbors.
There is no way to actually know, but my good guess is that most folks in this country feel the same.