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I think tards who get their panties in a twist are just pissed because they can't afford to pay girls their advertised rates and hate on the guys that can or do....just my opinion..
Originally Posted by SNL9933
Well I certainly don't disagree with THAT.
Not paying for something because you don't think or feel the product is worth the asking price is not being cheap at all.....
Cheap (to me) is when someone sees a product (in the case a provider)...wants to see her.....the guy can afford her rate....yet he still tries to negotiate her down to a lower rate...that (to me) is being cheap.
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Originally Posted by SNL9933
That's where it becomes blurry. Let's say I can afford 300 for a lady. But weekly I'm getting relatively equal value from a regular for 160 to 200...maybe 250 for going over on time. But said lady advertises 300 and I just don't feel it is worth the extra money.
I generally would let it pass. If I saw reviews of her at 250, I might make an offer. If she says "no," I'm out. Best case for her is I offer back slightly extended time for the 300. I'm more about getting the time I need and not squeezing out pennies. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. If I don't think it is going to fly (like she has no reviews at 250), I won't ask for a lower rate...might hint an extra 15 minutes. For me, I'd rather not go if I can't be there long enough.
Some ladies (like maybe the op) are hard headed and follow hookernomics or whatever.
I was traveling once where rates were high and found a young hottie I wanted to meet. Her ad and history was 300 for "60" minutes. The "60" struck me as peculiar so I asked what would happen if we went 70 or 75 minutes. She said that would be 350.
By the way, it was dark-thirty and she told me she had absolutely no business. And no screening was required because she and her pimpstress knew me. So I offered her 300 for 70/5 minutes and she declined...so I was out.
I asked her the next morning why she was so stubborn and she said she was worried I would keep milking the time. I told her she was the one advertising "60" minutes with no flexibility to run over if the session deserved it.
Edit: and i knew 70 would cover me.
I asked her how much money she made that night and the answer was ZERO. So for +/- 10 minutes she had no revenue. I was disappointed as well but at least I wasn't down 300 at the 59 minute mark with her dressing.
I wouldn't consider it "flea market" or cheap.
Some girls can be rediculous. I had one hitting me up while I was out of the country....I intreagued her and she was sending me titty pics and all sorts. I asked her what kind of homecoming specials she had and the answer was "250/hour baby"....I check her ad and she has a 180 special.
Anyway, these type issues will never be resolved to everyone's satisfaction. That's why it is a free market and rates vary as they do.
It is pointless to lose sleep over it.