I am not putting the blame on one guy. I saying that a lot of people in Houston suck as people. The problem with cute papi is that this guy is developing a pattern. This isn't the first time he pulled this stunt on a provider. He's being doing it for awhile. It's safe to say that he is a bad apple.
Originally Posted by WolfWhistle
I did reach out to providers he mentioned but you don't know the sinking feeling of emptiness where you have nowhere to stay. Don't know who is who. I told a few mods about crap papi but you don't really police your own to keep out the riff raff it's accepted and almost expected there.
Crappy Papi knows what he's doing and you guys are fine with it. Gto you are not him or came across that way. Some people come across decent but there needs to be a way we can rank the gentlemen on keeping their word, harassment, and would we see them again. Otherwise we will always be trapped and repeating each other's mistakes
Originally Posted by Kendall Kali
This is what happens when you advertise on BP and don't have any way to screen potential clients ... Obviously, Papi was not the only scary, bad experience you had here in Houston.
It's not at all that this behaviour is condoned, but the guys who do this kind of thing know that they can pull this shit on unsuspecting new girls on BP who don't do any screening.
Kendall, you really need to get yourself set up on P411, which you can use in any city and you can avoid this type of problem for the most part. Although, guys like Papi also have accounts on P411, but the odds are substantially reduced that they would pull that kind of crap since they know the APB's will get around the Provider pool and they'll get rejected when they try to make appointments.
Bad as it sounds like this experience was, you're lucky it wasn't even worse. There's some crazy, for shit people in this world.