"As detail oriented as you"? Seriously?
Detail oriented is putting it mildly,Retentia.
*chuckles*
[FONT=Comic Sans MS]Babe, being a stickler for details, I know that you'd be upset if I didn't tell you...
It's supposed to be bated breath. (shortened version of abated ).....well, unless you're eating worms, that is. If so, then you were correct with your,
baited breath, phrase and I stand corrected.
But to bring this hijack back on-topic. .
With regard to the first part...
A lot. I tend to glean an enormous amount of information from a provider's posts.
Based on this information, I'll then decide whether or not I think I might enjoy spending some time with them and then act accordingly. Often times, a provider will spark my interest if she posts something witty or sassy-intelligent....that will blip my Ho'dar. lol
With regard to the latter...
I totally 'get' that....A provider's online demeanor will most definitely cause my interest to change...not always proportionally, either. That's just the way it is. Certain personalities and characteristics I'm attracted to, others I'm not, so it makes no sense to spend my hard-earned Dollars going after someone who I'm not attracted to/someone I probably wouldn't enjoy spending time with.
By the same token, there have been some providers whom I've been attracted to, only to find out later, that they're really not anywhere near the persona they portray on the board/in the various forums.
That's what's so bad about this virtual age in which we live...It's so much more different than the one that I grew up in...when they come together, the reality is different than what was envisioned,
I've always had a knack for being able to read people and have always prided myself on being a pretty-good judge of character... But here lately, in the hobby, especially, I have missed that mark on more than a few occasions...missed it badly, too. I'm guessing because most of the communication is done electronically and I'm no able to read that person and am unable to gauge their reaction...and stuff like that...and that's likely where it breaks-down for me...
Live and learn, as they say, but it just sucks whenever you think you kind of know a person, only to discover that they're not the person they led you to believe...and they're actually just a turd floating in life's punch-bowl.
But all-in-all, I'm still keeping a pretty-good batting average. I've managed to cultivate some really good friendships and and I'm grateful for discovering them both......
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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun
Ahhh...
Yes... well, I COMPLETELY OWN the fact that I am a perfectionist... everything I do is designed to make me a better escort...Every exercise I do is designed to not only enhance some aspect of my body but also to improve some part of the sexual act that I find lacking in myself. ..lol
I was told I was the the only provider who created a chart of over 25 luves and over 30 condoms. .. each tested and experimented with personally so that I can guarantee that my partner in crime experiences the maximum pleasure...
It is what it is. .. Lol
In regards to my error in spelling. .. THANK YOU for the correction in my SPELLING... This is why you should NEVER POST after being F***** IN THE ASS by a 6' 7" GIANT!!
So... note to self...
Your detail oriented slave,
Guinevere