Now I know I'm falling for a provider. But I don't know what to do.

Kayleehotchick's Avatar
Would YOU date someone this dumb?
lol Originally Posted by riday

LOL...hell no. First off. I don't need a man renting me a car. I bought a new car on my own. Second, I don't need a man to rent an apartment in his name because I have my own place, thank you very much.

I WOULD NOT and I REPEAT, I would not feel comfortable allowing a man to do this much for me 2 weeks after meeting him. I love gifts as much as the next girl but being a user is not something I would enjoy.

I have had men give me gifts and take me shopping but that is after awhile of getting to know each other.

I love life and I respect myself and men enough to not be a user.

I wish this young man all the best in the world.
badbanana, cut off all contact with this girl. She is using you.
rexdutchman's Avatar
RUN, nothing good can come from being used !, take it from and older guy
..........I wish this young man all the best in the world............ Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick


Dispersed amongst the disbelief....the heckling....and some pretty good advice I think most members feel the same way, Kaylee. Some have drawn from their own (similar) experiences and are trying to save Banana some unnecessary grief / turmoil. (While a few others have advised him (mockingly, IMO) to go for it.

He's asked for advice from the community and he's gotten it. At this point, if he decides to move forward with this young lady (in the slim hopes it'll all be rainbows and roses henceforth), it's on him.

Someone in a prior post mentioned if Banana Boy doesn't listen to the pearls of wisdom he's been given, then he should not come back (posting) at a later date with the complaint she left him after cleaning him completely out. And I totally agree. The ridicule and mocking will be ten fold what he's already been smacked with.
corona's Avatar
Christ dude, go buy a fast sports car - get your thrills that way. You certainly can't trust yourself with sport fucking (hobbying).

Also get your testosterone levels checked, because you sound like a whining little bitch. (I mean that sincerely. I was the same way 3+ years ago, got my level checked and it was super low.)
Christ dude, go buy a fast sports car - get your thrills that way. You certainly can't trust yourself with sport fucking (hobbying).

Also get your testosterone levels checked, because you sound like a whining little bitch. (I mean that sincerely. I was the same way 3+ years ago, got my level checked and it was super low.) Originally Posted by corona
Thanks dude. But seriously, I'm definitely not a whining bitch on any other things and persons.
Sleepy363's Avatar
I found a picture of the lovely couple:

sparrow1122's Avatar
Badbanana,
You asked for advise and counseling. You have received it from males and females. It is all the same, cut all ties.
You are a nice guy but the odds are not on your side. The current path is emotional and financial ruin.

Run away.

Good luck.
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
He is clearly not going to....

He can't see that he has made himself look like a total doormat here on the board so of course, the chances are high that he will get messed over.

And he will have no one to blame but himself.

He clearly doesn't listen to good advice.

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink.
I'm afraid the very high odds are that you'll end up being a bruised banana at the end of this.
I'm gonna end this today. I'll talk to her. Actually I booked an overnight with her yesterday and that's when I wanted to talk. But things happened and she didn't come. Anyway, everything is gonna be done today.
dogsmack's Avatar
Kaylee,
I'm glad I read your comments. I was getting ready to go to an appoint w/ a provider this afternoon as an excuse to ask her to marry me. I guess now I will take the ring back and sell the honeymoon trip, but I'm still gonna go hammer away on her for a few hours. Then I will go home and cry all the way thru ESPN Sports Center.
Aaaaahahaha ..... This thread is awesomeness.
(You are too Kaylee)
Kayleehotchick's Avatar
I love it dogsmack!
sparrow1122's Avatar
+10 on Kayleehotchicks posts.

Either this guys ends it or it will end him.

Kaylee, we need to meet!
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RUN FOREST RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!! Originally Posted by General Feuerbacher
NO SHIT