So b/c some of us didn't agree with you we didn't understand what you were trying to say? As one of the "100 people who responded" I understood what you were saying pretty clearly. It just doesn't make much sense imo.
How does it take away from your ability to choose? That's nonsense. We're all adults here. Nobody is holding a gun to your head, and you'll never be able to control what other adults do.
And one or two girls advertising does not create the perception that every girl offers bbfs. More nonsense. That is why there is a menu, ads, and showcases, etc. where you can clearly state no bbfs. Just like there are still girls who do not offer bbbj. The confusion comes more from girls who want to do it your way and give off the perception that they don't do it while doing it on the down low creating a grey area. That is a big reason why clients still request it even when it is not advertised. Because a lot of you are doing it bcd while trying to act like you don't.