LOL.. you are one of the sweetest seflish pricks I know!!! Mwah!!! Originally Posted by Lea MadissonHey, I said I was a selfish prick; I didn't say I didn't have redeeming qualities to make up for it...
I guess I came across a little harsh there... but you know I love ya!!I know where you were coming from with that, and I understand what you mean. But I think for many guys like me, there are more issues than pure selfishness affecting us.
Smooch!
Lea Originally Posted by Lea Madisson
In my case, a tremendous lack of self-confidence comes into it. Close to a feeling of, "no way I can even come close to this other guy in stamina and ability to please a woman... I guess I'll sit off to the side here so I don't detract anything from her pleasure in him..."
And don't tell me "But Bluff... I've been with you, and I know how well you can please a woman"; this is something that goes back a long, long time with me, and isn't anything I'm going to think rationally about. Probably requires expensive psychotherapy to resolve. LOL
Hey, if I had self-confidence, I could probably attract a real girlfriend and then I wouldn't need ladies like you (though I'd still want you...).
Love ya, too, babe but I hope you know that!
Cheers,
bcg