I'm sorry lady but when one of you whores feels it is OK to contact a clients wife and to publicly post pictures of the two of you together and put his life on blast it's information that other's here might appreciate having prior to booking an appointment.
Originally Posted by Whispers
I couldn't agree more. Outing is dangerous and unacceptable. I know first hand the effects of being outed.
Ironically, I also know first hand the effects of being falsely accused of outing someone. Fortunately, the girl who accuses me of this has ruined her own reputation and is a well known dangerous, indiscreet, unstable, provider here, and she can't escape that rep, no matter how many times she changes her handles or retires. In retrospect, I digress. Perhaps I still don't know the effects of being falsely accused as she never successfully smeared my name.
At any rate, outing, as has been described in this thread by Whispers, is wrong and hell yes, the community deserves to know before booking with such an indiscreet and hot headed provider. She seems to have little control over her emotions and she forgets her place. In the hobby, if your boyfriend pays you tribute for time and has a wife at the house he gets his mail, you are his provider, not a girlfriend. The tribute is supposed to remind you of that and keep you in your place.
Don't forget, it's an ILLUSION OF PASSION and the ILLUSION is supposed to be for his benefit, not for a providers personal life. Claire, you forgot your place and started believing the illusion was real. IT's not, know your place. Stay in it. And if you contact a wife, you have outed the client. And that is not okay. Not in any way you spin it.
Bad provider Bad. Just Bad Form. Bad Bad Bad Bad Bad. What were you fucking thinking. What the fuck? Really
Claire, you blew it all right.
Whispers, you nailed it.
Now, am I still Observing? Because if I am, I suddenly have a split personality, don't I? (Hint: No, I am not Observing. Nor do I have any other handles. I don't even post under this one very often, why would I need another? Get a new obsession, you know who you are, I'm not the one, I promise you, I'm not the one)