I'm a guy in a wheelchair in his 50's. The only way someone in the civilian world and I are going to hook up is if like the last time. I went to meet a friend for rita's at Los Cucos and she brought a co-worker with her.The moment our eyes met there was instant chemistry. I'm talking about pheromones in overdrive type of attraction. She had written down her number before I had a chance to ask. She would drop by on her lunch hour. Unfortunately, my attendant screwed that up for me and it didn't last long. It's only happened twice, but that's better than never.
You're doing the right thing based on your hobbying budget. Charcoal hit the nail on the head though. Just think about how much money would be wasted if you were just trying to get some booty in the civilian world.
I bet if you look hard enough you can find some good providers at a decent rate to fit your budget... Originally Posted by SNL9933
When I was in my late 30's when I first experienced that instant chemistry and she turned out to be a sugar momma. She was pulling in over $80K a year in '97-'98 and rarely let me pay for anything. My pride and chivalrous nature took a hit, but I got over it. She was 44 and no man before me had ever given her an orgasm. She learned more about sex and things she didn't know she enjoyed, like a good spank during DATY, right at climax, intensified her O. I introduced her to toys and used them on her. In hindsight, maybe I should've waited longer before using a vibrator on her, lol. She was the only woman I loved enough to have married. However, though the love was mutual, she felt like George Clooney when it came to marriage, especially after having done it once before.
She was an attractive woman and I hoped against it, but knew eventually the things I opened her eyes to would lead her to wonder what more an able-bodied person could do. I just didn't think if it happened, and how close we were, that I'd get dumped in an email a month after she through me a fantastic birthday party. Oh well, live and learn.
