Agreed. Which is why I don't do it. If I knew the verbal intercourse would be stimulating and challenging, then it might be more valuable than the BCD time. But in my example (and in most ladies' rate structures) the dinner time costs more than the BCD time. I just don't get that inequity. Is it that hard for a lady to be scintillating at dinner?
Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
It all depends. I was at a social event recently where all I had to do is look pretty and make small talk. I attended event with several people who truly enjoyed it and happened to be my ride. In other words, I could not leave till they were good and ready.
By the end of first hour I kind of had understanding what goes through mind of trapped animals just before they chew off their leg. By hour two, I was seriously contemplating walking home. Luckily I found someone else who was in as much of an agony as I was and agreed to give me a ride to nearest train station.
I have absolutely noone to blame since I should have known better than to attend in the first place.
Now, on to BCD time value vs public time value.
Your evaluation is based on 3:1 ratio 3h of public time and 1h of BCD. Let's forget the "rates quoted are for my time only". If that was reality entire conversation would be moot point.
Skilled companion can keep dinner to time limit she sees appropriate. Thus, chances of you having 3h dinner are slim to none. When dinner date is scheduled, it is usually for 2h dinner and 2h private time.
So let's see. I have 1h rate of 400 and 2h of 600. It is safe to assume that most of 1 and 2h dates will involve majority of time spent in sensual manner.
Dinner date usually is priced at 900. Thus, you end up paying 150/h for social vs 300/h for intimate companionship during that 4 h encounter.
If you are willing to add another 200, total BCD time goes up to 3H and public time up to 4H.
Now, if I my goals were to maximize profits in shortest span as opposed to cultivating on going interaction with people I truly enjoy being with, I would rather schedule 3 -4 one hour dates priced at 300/h.
Operating under such business model , I would have to price dinner date at minimum of 1200 and skip clock free packages entirely, because anything less than that would be financially irresponsible.
And if I really wanted to get most $$$$ in shortest possible time, 180/hh or 250/h backpage ad would do the job just fine. I would not even bother with any longer packages.
I am sure other ladies have their reason for pricing things the way they do. Some ladies have direct correlation between their rates and self esteem. Others have very defined goals. There are those who prefer to structure biz in way to fit around their lives, not to be their live.
Of course, there are occasional mathematically challenged ones .... They either learn fast or leave industry.
Believe me, sometimes there is a reasonable explanation for the way women do things. Not often, but occasionally it has been know to happen:-). When I introduced "6 hour date anywhere in US" package including my travel expences, I received several emails from men saying "great offer but does it make sense for u???". Believe me it did.
Lina