It was the personal stabs that bothered me.I completely agree, i ´have never said that being a rude is a good thing to be. But i think it can also be comprehended that when someone studied and someone else offends a science as dogma that it is pretty insulting too? And a personal stab? I recently dated a TBM (true believer mormon) and i would have never dared to bash his belief the same way some people freak out about science.
Yes, I do meet some dog owners/parents(sorry atl lol) with some pretty odd ideas, and yes my first instinct is to yell, and throw rocks at them especially when their lack of info is harming the dog, but I know from experience that when you sugar coat it you end up with a much greater influence with them than when you just lose your temper, and yell.
Originally Posted by Becky
Respect goes a long way with such things, and disrespect posted in sugarcoated snacks is by no means less disrespectful. What is important for me is that THIS is something that is also to be acknowledged in the same way that being a rude is a bad thing. I never said being a rude is entitling me to a medal of honor. But everyone has flaws and getting heated in discussion is mine.
What bothered me was the lack of recognition and the ignorance on what i had to say and the acknowledgement that i was wrong in stating some things the way i did. And it would have been a lot more helpful if some people actually had the ability to come down of their high horse. And not only backstab people behind the curtains where no one is looking That is easier than putting yourself out there and take it like an adult, so to speak :-)
A not rude person would have in my point of view at least stated something of a recognition or an acknowledgement that being arrogant and ignorant can also play a part in getting a rude or harsh response.
That is what bothered me. This playing the victim, when clearly no one is innocent :-).
And especially when people actually do believe in religions and Karma then they should probably be more capable of thinking about why it happens to them that others act so rude. And not only blaming the others. I actually do not post rude answers to every one here on board, so it CAN`T COMPLETELY be ME only.