I'm all up for negotiation

If the female obviously needs money, and she offers a good service, have you considered visiting with her, paying her rate, and just offering her a small tip?

One of the issues that I'm seeing, now, with guys who wish to be sugar daddies, etc.... is that they're wanting the most "bang for their buck." I GET that.

But where is the caring in that? I'm seeing such a shift in attitudes. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

+1

I really get tired of this subject. But only from the standpoint of the ladies who get pissy if someone tries to get the best price he can. I do not blame ladies for trying to get all the market will allow. If a provider wants to make 48K per year and can get $500 an hour all she has to do is 2 per week, or 3 per week at $300, or 5 per week at $200.

I personally refuse to pay more than $200 an hour or $100 to $125 for a half hour. If you are $300 an hour and I offer $200 don't get pissy, just say no thanks. This is not personal, This is business. You are selling a product. We are just making an offer as to what we are willing to pay. I have seen over 100 different ladies in the past 2 years, and many I see regularly, many have asking prices well over $200, and they continue to see me for $200.

All I am asking is for you to not take it personally. If someone makes an hour either accept it or politely decline.

I really get tired of this subject. But only from the standpoint of the ladies who get pissy if someone tries to get the best price he can. I do not blame ladies for trying to get all the market will allow. If a provider wants to make 48K per year and can get $500 an hour all she has to do is 2 per week, or 3 per week at $300, or 5 per week at $200.

I personally refuse to pay more than $200 an hour or $100 to $125 for a half hour. If you are $300 an hour and I offer $200 don't get pissy, just say no thanks. This is not personal, This is business. You are selling a product. We are just making an offer as to what we are willing to pay. I have seen over 100 different ladies in the past 2 years, and many I see regularly, many have asking prices well over $200, and they continue to see me for $200.

All I am asking is for you to not take it personally. If someone makes an hour either accept it or politely decline. Originally Posted by Knighthawk

It's never going to work that way just because your reasoning is sound to you, hon. Telling a woman, even a (gasp) hooker kind of woman, not to get pissy, usually causes her to actually get pissy. LOL

You've stated your case and are of the opinion you have the answers we all need and will work for everyone. Thank you kindly for your input, dear. Have a great St Paddy's Day!

I thought this thread died? Nothing has changed I see, some negotiate and some don't. Life goes on.....

Nah......it's not against the rules for you to tell us who is a bargain hunter/haggler. I totally understand what it's like having the hagglers contact you, acting as if they are haggling for a blowup doll at a flea market. Just don't see them if they try. Make it clear in your showcase, ads, etc.....don't ask. Stop giving discounts n specials to anyone. That's exactly the type of behavior that has caused many of us to stick to our prices and rarely offer specials, and no more discounts. Some just kill a good thing for everyone. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

I think I'd rather pay the blow up doll, I'm amazed you have guys calling you....if I'm spending money for companionship , I want somebody born within the last couple of decades.....but that's just my opinion, I am not into antiques.......

on topic, Sammy.....I normally am not into BBW, but damn you are pretty!, and really sexy, you could possibly change my thinking about BBW....don't let them haggle, your really attractive, get your money!

Sorry that happened to you. Pm me his name

Sorry that happened to you. Pm me his name Originally Posted by Pillikari

did you bump your head? cuz your not funny, kinda pathetic......but keep posting, i'm sure someone will laugh their ass off........

I think I'd rather pay the blow up doll, I'm amazed you have guys calling you....if I'm spending money for companionship , I want somebody born within the last couple of decades.....but that's just my opinion, I am not into antiques....... Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Ok little fella. LOL. I'll allow my rep and the fact I actually can make a living doing what I do speak for me. And, WALDT you congenial fella you. We won't even speculate why you hobby. It's obvious. Have yourself a great delusion of passion.

What's that like? <~~~rhetorical.

Shhh

I really get tired of this subject. But only from the standpoint of the ladies who get pissy if someone tries to get the best price he can. I do not blame ladies for trying to get all the market will allow. If a provider wants to make 48K per year and can get $500 an hour all she has to do is 2 per week, or 3 per week at $300, or 5 per week at $200.

I personally refuse to pay more than $200 an hour or $100 to $125 for a half hour. If you are $300 an hour and I offer $200 don't get pissy, just say no thanks. This is not personal, This is business. You are selling a product. We are just making an offer as to what we are willing to pay. I have seen over 100 different ladies in the past 2 years, and many I see regularly, many have asking prices well over $200, and they continue to see me for $200.

All I am asking is for you to not take it personally. If someone makes an hour either accept it or politely decline. Originally Posted by Knighthawk

This, and, I always wonder, is there anything that women pay $3-4-500 an hour for, for something that they don't get to keep. Some like to throw around the phrase 'cheap bastard' for guys who, are selective about how they spend money that takes them more than a couple hours to make.

This, and, I always wonder, is there anything that women pay $3-4-500 an hour for, for something that they don't get to keep. Some like to throw around the phrase 'cheap bastard' for guys who, are selective about how they spend money that takes them more than a couple hours to make. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

What is there that is even comparable that a lady might be tempted to purchase? If you can name one thing as intimate and personal and we feel we can not live without then that is your answer.

Ok little fella. LOL. I'll allow my rep and the fact I actually can make a living doing what I do speak for me. And, WALDT you congenial fella you. We won't even speculate why you hobby. It's obvious. Have yourself a great delusion of passion.

What's that like? <~~~rhetorical.

Shhh Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

its not looking for an older lady to pay attention to me.....that's creepy, I hobby because I can...and I prefer a girl that is in her 20's, not her twilight years, i'm amazed you make a living, but WALDT....Theirs a lot of dudes with a gramah fetish....

its not looking for an older lady to pay attention to me.....that's creepy, I hobby because I can...and I prefer a girl that is in her 20's, not her twilight years, i'm amazed you make a living, but WALDT....Theirs a lot of dudes with a grama fetish.... Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Don't behave like an inmature kid when you address a mature and sexy woman, and I guarantee she won't ever even know ur alive. ijs


I am kind of amazing and you very well should be amazed by me, because in my own observation, I can understand why you might assume something you might believe is the norm for every woman. However, ya know what they say about those who assume, don't ya? You are one of those I spoke about in another thread. I don't fit in the boxes that people who don't even know me try to put me in, so stop trying. You are wasting both our time, and I'd hate to have to bill you....lol.


Carry on and do yo thang....it's all good....

Don't behave like an inmature kid when you address a mature and sexy woman, and I guarantee she won't ever even know ur alive. ijs


I am kind of amazing and you very well should be amazed by me, because in my own observation, I can understand why you might assume something you might believe is the norm for every woman. However, ya know what they say about those who assume, don't ya? You are one of those I spoke about in another thread. I don't fit in the boxes that people who don't even know me try to put me in, so stop trying. You are wasting both our time, and I'd hate to have to bill you....lol.


Carry on and do yo thang....it's all good.... Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

blah, blah...bs....i'm as old as you are, but I am the one spending the money....you are the one with all your half century of baggage....nothing amazing about you except you earn your cash as a middle...upper middle aged whore....guess theres an ass for every seat.........

What is there that is even comparable that a lady might be tempted to purchase? If you can name one thing as intimate and personal and we feel we can not live without then that is your answer. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Rent a Mercedes for a couple hours, then, for comparison, rent a Toyota Camry.

Then come back and tell us if the price difference was worth it.

Sure, sex is intimate, but we're the same species. We're SUPPOSED to have sex with each other. It's not like women are human and guys are Martians or anything.