My honest view is this, any provider who won't see ANY hobbyist for reason of RACE, I view in a negative light. Black, White, Latina, Asian, whatever. If THAT'S your reason for not seeing a guy, then you suck, IMO. Now, if a hobbyist is obnoxious, fat (sorry big guys), doesn't shower, has balls that are too hairy, heavy smoker, is a psycho,
OR THINGS HE CAN ACTUALLY CONTROL, then I feel those are valid reasons to NOT see a guy. I included fat in there because, guys, you can lose weight. It wouldn't hurt some of you to drop a few pounds. If the ladies' not comfortable with your weight, I think that's fair. I think dick size is another reason to not see a guy. Obviously, a guy can't control this, but some ladies aren't size queens. This would simply be an inconvenience for those that it applies to, but at least it would transcend race. I also think these reasons should be posted UP FRONT.
I can't NOT be black. I can NOT be a jerk, or smelly, or a short changer. I can be a cooperative, respectful gentleman. The knuckleheads pray on girls with weak screening. This is why this happens, and it doesn't matter what race they are.
I say again. Any provider, regardless of race, who uses race as a screening tool is seen in a lesser light by me.
Don't know where DED is. Maybe he became a minister or is tied up in someone's basement and being forced to watch Cubs games over and over.