Sometimes putting forth any effort at all to try and help some people is a waste of time.
I've had to pull back several times in my life when I was trying to help someone out that I truly cared about. Even within my own family.
People have to be ready to help themselves out before anything you can do will make any difference at all.
So I would say that unless you can say with a definitive "yes" that someone is ready to help their self out. That any effort you put forth would be a complete waste of time.
But I'm just another pervert, not a MOD.
Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat
those are surprisingly good words (no offense)
i agree with you, but to be fair when the people who know the truth won't stand up for you, you have to depend on people who don't ... and these people are out to do harm,
it least when she was upset she had a pretty good reason to be, now she can't defend herself... but we (as a community) can keep attacking her...