omg cant believe im going to reply to this. First of all many of us practice hygiene standards that keep bodily fluids contained, as a professional its the least You can do. And fucking Your SO is waaay different then fucking 300 men with out a condom. This is common sense. 1 versus 300?
What she does in her personal life is her choice, what she does professionally should be conducted professionally. That would be like going to see Your gynecologist for a pap smear. im sure Your SO puts his fingers in there bare, But it damn sure would be wrong, unethical,and unprofessional for him to do it as a professional. Same act different standards.
as for this comment.................
i find it quite funny that some peoples argument is "would you want some guys bare dick being where you are thinking about datying at".. do you really get off licking some girls pussy that has fucked a guy period..condom or not? i mean..his 300lb belly was bumping and grinding, and pubic hairs dusting off as he pounds away at her tight hole COVERED mind you..that you will be licking on hours later.. i find it hard to believe a thin piece of plastic makes it that much easier to do or not to do? really?
why would You not shower? Your implying You go from session to session w/o a shower? That's just nasty gross.... You really have a way with making men want to hobby......
Some of us are low volume enough and i pride myself in this to at least shower in between, and i try to only see one client in a 24 hr period. But that's just me. Just bc this little hobby is far from legal doesn't mean we are all entitled to do as we please. Just think what regulations and health standards would be put in place if it were legalized? im sure bbfs wouldn't be the standard, and shouldn't be. Just bc You wear a condom makes it far from safe, especially with a high volume partner such as a provider who fucks bare.
As low volume as i am, ill go on a limb and say honestly ive probably seen 400 men. Who is the bigger threat here, me or the hobbiest who has seen me and his wife maybe 20 others? So not the same, give it up, that argument makes no logic at all.
Originally Posted by subcilla
LOL.. you kill me seriously.. what lines can you draw to conclude that BBFS has to equal HIGH VOLUME.. and that a girl that would offer BBFS ain't low volume just like you..? i mean.. if she is getting more for that "speciality"..she may work less than you and make more money..
second.. condoms don't stop herpes, crabs and many other diseases..prevents aids..yes.. however.. if providers are seriously sitting here saying that they have SOOOOOO MUCH faith in condoms that if for a second they thought for a second a guy was infected or at risk they would still see him? HELL NO.. they would refuse service.. just like a girl going BB could..
in the end its all theories.. there is not hard line drawn to BBFS equally high volume..and because you sit here and claim low volume doesn't make it fact either.. all it takes is one.. one guy.. a kiss, a bbbj with herpes on yoru mouth that just ain't breaking out.. one time..one guy to infect you..condom or not.. is there a greater risk..of course..
i would far rather take my chances with some married guy with a 350,000 dollar home..a wife, 2 kids, a great job.. that has more to lose.. i would take my chances on him being safe.. then some 22yr old provider that has some cash in her pockets..hits the bar and banging some guy she has known for 5 months bareback cuz she LUVS HIM.. god knowing only who he has fucked..only to break up..rinse and repeat with the next guy.. ya..i will count on the married guy most likely playing safer and being safer then some provider counting on condoms but barebacking some stuff she is "in luv with"... seriously now..its goofy.. some of ya'll put so much damn thought into bbfs
i the end..know one knows who is doing it.. never will.. so its all a pointless argument..
best bet.. guys wear a condom.. girls make the guy wear a condom.. if you don't want the guy to wear a condom..thats your choice too..
here is a nifty idea.. if guys call asking for bbfs..SAY NO.. there is NO RULE against asking.. anyone can ask anyone any question in the hobby..if they are willing to live with the results.. no harm in asking..the worst you can be told is NO.. i chuckle when girls get all bent out of shape and personally offended some guy would ask..
get over it already.. if everyone is minding their own business..wearing condoms.. then you have nothing to worry about..