I agree with your thinking. I started with fingers, then small vibrators, then larger toys , but not super long or thick. Gentle plus plenty of lube is essential, as well as an understanding provider. I have also enjoyed sex with a few beautiful TS ladies who took their time with me. Originally Posted by quailI think that this is a VERY wise philosophy. Start slow. You can always do more later. ENJOY the moment as it comes. (Must be a joke in there somewhere!)
And be with someone that appreciates the philosophy of going slowly and not causing pain. Perhaps some pressure, though. Grin.