Well, let's see what kind of trouble I can get myself into over words, here. "Plush" (I like that one!), "curvy," "thick" ... all these mean different things to different people, of course. To me, the distinction is between "girlish" and "womanly." I'm sure there are exceptions, but I'll venture to generalize that when most female persons have given birth, their physiques change from "girlish" to "womanly." And that change is normally associated with the acquisition of a little additional weight, a little more pronounced rounding of the belly, a little more breast fullness, and so on.Thanks for the compliment honey! It's interesting you think I'm more on the girlish side of the spectrum. I used to be a very very thin size 0/2, so I feel quite "plush" in comparison to that these days. I'm now a size 12 on bottom and 14 on top, and my boobs are 34D. But, I'm also 5'9, and at what is considered a healthy weight for my height (whereas I was definitely underweight before!)
Now, I have nothing against that girlish look. Lots of you have it, and are real works of art (I'm looking at you, Piper!). But -- probably due to my age, in part -- I'm a serious, serious fan of the womanly look. (And feel!) The association with childbearing explains some of that, I think; after all, babies are a good thing, and our species doesn't have much of a future without them. But along with that, it seems to me that a womanly woman usually has a certain calm and confidence about her that I find very hot indeed.
Ladies, please keep sharing. I think this thread has a long and bright future ahead of it! Originally Posted by James1588
I try not to advertise myself as something I'm not, because I had a very long term regular who quit seeing me due to the weight gain.
But I have not had kids, just low thyroid.
I agree with you though, I love me some MILFs. Soft in all the right places.